ok well basically, you see that he doesnt want a baby anytime soon so yall need to use protection or dont let him have sex with you .. by him sayin, YOU’RE CONTROLLIN HIS LIFE BY KEEPIN THE BABY is selfish .. i believe you should keep the baby if you want .. if not then give it up for adoption .. dont abort .. BUT DO WHAT YOU WANT !! he’s just being a selfish, scared little boy .. YOU DECIDE, NOT HIM !!