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  • January 22, 2009 at 5:51 pm in reply to: i will live with it forever. #23877
    tpsw123
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    thank you for your replys. its nice to know people are behind you and not judging you…
    I just wish I knew then what I know now…
    I try to stay strong but even now nearly 11 years later the guilt & regret hits me like it was yesterday. xoxox

    January 22, 2009 at 3:44 pm in reply to: need advice for “breaking the news” #23876
    tpsw123
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    Hi,
    you’ve made the hardest decision, keeping your baby…Im sure your parents will support your decision.
    I come from a very strong catholic family and I didnt tell my mum until after I had the abortion, however she was so supportive & upset that I felt that I couldnt go to her…

    Good luck & keep us posted. xx

    January 21, 2009 at 5:55 pm in reply to: How do you ever forgive yourself? #23868
    tpsw123
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    hi, I too had an abortion nearly 11 years ago and your right you may never truly forgive yourself. I know I havent.
    I have had 2 children since but that doesnt stop me thinking about my 1st baby in heaven.

    You need to follow your own feelings and make peace with yourself. I tried to block out my actions as i thought i didnt have the right to cry as it was my choice etc…
    still now there are certain events in my life which make me think even more about it & the guilt is just as strong…

    remember everyone deals with things differently and whats right for them maybe not right for you…

    stay strong xxxx

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