i think you should tell him if hes not going to be their for your daughter part time then he cant be their at all. so he can either make a decision on seeing her on the weekends or never seeing her again. because thats how you feel that hes not there much so he may as well not be there at all. and if he walks away, you can always keep your head help high and you know you dont need a man to rely on. but i also dont feel as if he would leave what man would leave their child to be raised without a father. only time will tell and he should come around eventually when he comes to his sences and realises his FAMILY needs him.