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I’m sorry to hear that your in a relationship like this, nobody should ever be abused under any circumstances. I practically grew up watching my mom fight with her boyfriend, I can’t say getting beat because she fought back. But the saddest thing was when I became involved in the fights. So when I got pregnant with my daughter at 16, I promised myself that I would never fall into a relationship like that. You probably don’t want to hear it but the best thing for you and your daughter would be to leave, honestly what is going to happen when the anger turns to your daughter?
I’ve never been in this situation, I did however think about abortion ONCE the day I found out I was 16yrs and pregnant. I came out of the doctors office and after telling my mom she asked “Well what are you going to do about it?” and being stupid I said, “Well I don’t want it!!” but that was far from the truth, I only said that because I was confused and in some ways mad that I let this happen. But I chose to keep and raise my daughter and 3 1/2yrs later I don’t regret the decision, she is the best thing to ever happen to me, its because of her that I pushed myself to succeed. I had her a month after I turned 17yrs, and had my son 3mos. before I turned 19yrs, so I had two kids before I graduated high school. And today I’am a 20yr old mom of two, and also a full time college student and I wouldn’t trade it for anything, so there can be/is life after having a child.
