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hey girl i am 17 and i have a very healthy 6 week old daughter. i didnt go to the doctor for the first time until i was almost 5 months preg. i wasnt on prenatal vitamins.. and before i knew i was preg. i drank some too. i do encourage you to go back to the doc and get some vitamins. also the doc can monitor you and your baby to make sure that things go well throughout your preg. and you want to start doing that as early as possible, also i am so excited that you and your boyfriend decided to keep the baby. that was a very hard decision to make but believe me it will be all worth it. i am also glad to hear that his mom is being very supportive. that will be very helpful i know! i was so scared to tell my mom but when she found out she was a little upset at first.. not mad but sad because i was still her baby.. but the pregnancy brought us closer together.. and now she loves her soo much. i hope everything works out for you and if u ever have any questions or just need to talk.. come to me ok girl.
hey girl go you for stepping up and doing the right thing not only for your kids but for yourself. i can only imagine all the hurt you are going through and i only wish i could take it away from you and i dont even know you. if your husband has chosen to walk away from yall then that is something he is going to have to live with for the rest of his life.. but would you want to live with regret that you took your hurt out on your children? they are innocent little angels and they cant help the problems that you and your husband might be experiencing. so yes i do think it was the right decision to get out of that relationship. let your kids motivate you through all of this… let those little unborn babies push you to get over the pain. this will most likely without a doubt take some time to heal from but you can do it.. you have to be strong for them… they are relying on you. your husbands lying and abusive behavior only puts stress on you and those babies.. all of them. yall dont deserve that. God is testing you for something.. dont let him down… show him you can do it.. and if you believe in God pray to him.. ask him to help guide you through this hard time in your life. and dont forget he knew all of this was going to happen and he has a plan for you and he doesnt make mistakes. ask for his help.. things will get better.. they might get worst before they get better but dont give up on God.. because he isnt going to give up on you. if you have a relationship with your family.. turn to them also.. maybe they can help you out also. but girl dont give up. you know what is right for you and those babies so you make the decisions that will make everything right. i will support you and you can email me anytime.. or email me and i will give you my number and you can call me because i know you need people to support you. i will be here for you to talk to from here on out.. maybe you are the reason that God made me sign onto this website tonight.. because your story has hit my heart in a weird way and i feel that i was directed to this site to help you.. so you let me know anything i can do to help you. you will get through this!!! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!
