LandynsAuntie

I’m really sorry to hear about the devastating news youve received…but, this might make you feel better. My mother had my older brother when she was 39 years old. The doctors tried over and over to convince her to abort him..they said he was going to be mentally retarded. she had six miscarriages and one ectopic pregnancy before she finally had a successful pregnancy.she was soooo excited. then the doctors told her that. she was strong though and never gave in. she had been trying to have children for years. she was NOT going to abort her child no matter what. well, she had him and a few years when by..and she got pregnant with me at 41. they told her i also would be retarded. but once again she wouldnt let anything get her down at her time of happiness……turns out we were the opposite of what the drs predicted. we both we very smart and athletic..neither one of us in school ever had lower than a 4.0—needless to say, the doctors arent always right…sometimes what shouldve or couldve been wrong,isnt….My point is, dont give up hope..you never know.it could and i think, WILL turn out to be perfectly healthy…but you realllllly do need to try to stop smoking….you dont want to know you caused your baby to have weak lungs…..i hope all goes well and this makes you feel better..