Jaydens_mummy

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  • in reply to: Waiting #13174
    Jaydens_mummy
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    Oh my goodness that must have been such a terrifying experience for you! I dont nkow how i would cope having another child after my son, still only being 16. How old is Konor?
    I am so so happy for you that your partner and you are happy, and i wish you all the best for you, your son, your bf and your soon to be born baby girl!
    Take care be strong and have fun 🙂 xxx

    in reply to: I’m 16 and just ruined my life #13173
    Jaydens_mummy
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    Hey hunnie
    My names Ashlee, and im from New Zealand. I was 14 when i found out i was pregnant, and it was the hardest news i had ever had to hear up until that point in my life. I was only 15 when i gave birth to my son, which scared the living daylights out of me, but trust me it is so worth it. I know it all seems so scary at the moment, trust me i reallly do know, and telling my mum was most certainly NOT the easiest thing i did, but im glad i did it. Well actually my school accidentally let it slip :). U will get through this, and you are so blessed to be given the life of a child, to have this baby in your stomach and to raise a child that wil grow up tp be something so amazing. You probably dont wanna hear all this, i disragarded it when people told me, so ill try and help ya out ok. If (under the worst circumstances) ur bf leaves you, its not the worst, being a single mother is hard but its something id rather do, that way you dont have conflicting arguments about every decision u make. Morning sickness lol. eat something dry like crackers or something BEFORE you get out of bed soon as you wake up pretty much. If ur dad offers help with anything, take it! I know it doesnt seem like you wanna rely on everyone else at first, but you will need it, we all wanna seem like were doing it on our own but trust me the help is the best part, even if its just dso you can get an hours undisturbed sleep one day! Stay in school for as long as you can through the pregnancy, and afterwards maybe you could do school from home, like correspondence, i do that an its so good knowing im still gettin an education to better my son when we’re older.

    Im may only be 16 but having a child makes you grow up so fast, but remember you are still young so you dont have to become a 30yr old woman overnight k

    Sorry about the long as reply, but if u ever need someone to talk to or jus feel lke a chat, or want any questions answered, [please post here or email me through my profile], im here if u need anything k

    Good luck, stay strong and take care of u and your little one for the time being

    Seeya
    xxx

    Post edited by: acas, at: 2006/11/16 15:30

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