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it really isnt your fault. ur now exbf should have never done that, and your right it wasnt brutal but it was rape.. you said no and he should have stopped. though you may not want to press charges i have to agree with meg we wouldnt him to do this to someonelse. as far as your mom goes its going to be hard but you have to have a different situation. ur probably thinking the worse but your mom may support you and help you through this time that you need her. even so we are all here for you. as far as getting a pregnancy test like i said just wait a week and then take a test and be sure to get tested for stds!!
wait a few days id say and if you really find out go see a doctor. you will know for sure. have unprotected sex even if you are on the pill can still get you pregnant. when u have sex not only are you risking pregnancy but also all those stds and i know its not something you wanna hear, or ur saying you know all this. i was on the pill and didnt make my bf use a condom, i didnt only get pregnant but i also got an std. thankfully it was one that with some antibiotics will go away and wouldnt harm the baby. so when u go n get a pregnancy test go get checked for stds as well.. i wish you the best and you have us all here at SUG if you need to talk dnt be afriad
if you think your pregnant go take a test, its better to find out sooner than later. i agree with myangels you could be very pregnant. have you thought about what you are going to do if you are pregnant? whatever it comes to be i am sure you will be strong enough to get through!! you have us all here at SUG!!
please let us know what happens
wow 13 and pregnant that is a very young age. i strongly suggest telling your parents its going to be very hard for you it isnt easy. but you are most likely thinking the very worst, i just turned 17 when i told my dad. i was so scared i thought he was goingto ick me out and call me all these names and hit me and what not but it was actually alot easier. yes are age diferences are different more so because you are so young. but don think abortion is your only option there is adoption!! some people pay for all the medical bills and to make sure you are well takin cared of during pregnancy i am not saying keep the baby your going to get money no i am not saying that. even if you have to talk to your bfs parents first. but you need to tell an trusted adult to guide you and helpyou through it. its going to be hard keeping ur pregnancy a secret especially when u feel that there is a big sign pointing at you telling you that you are. what ever desicion you make is something you have to live with for the rest of your life. i am not telling you its going to be easy its going to be hard. but coming out can be the best thing you can do.
