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big hug – poor you , you are being put in the most awfull position possible. the first thing is as much as you love your boyfriend and time you have been with him, anyone who puts you in this kind of position is treating you incredibly badly, and maybe you already know it, but maybe you should leave him. Even if you did get this abortion, what happens if you fall pregnant again? Will he never want children, while you know you do. Or will he start blaming you for aborting his child. these are all questions you need to think about. It really sounds like you do not want to give up this child and though it will be hard work , you know the best for yourself and your child. Is there any chance you can move back in with your parents ? If his parents knew about what he was forcing you to do I cannot imagine they would agree on what he is making you do. I would really think hard because even if you stayed and had the abortion , it doesnt mean your life will get any better…
awww poor you sounds like your stuck in the middle of things – congratulations for the baby though. i know it sounds the worse possible thing to do, but you need to sit down and tell your mum. she may take it better than expected you never know. it doesnt sound like your having it easy atm, but it will get better eventually. explain to your mum that you tried being apart but you both loved each other too much and apologise for going behind her back but that you didnt want to hurt her. as for everything else, it sounds like the guy your with is being great so good luck , xxxxx
