Dino

I can tell you that being pregnant can be a scary thing specially when you don’t know how people will react. I was 26 when I got pregnant with my first child and my husband (boyfriend at the time) was 6 years younger than me. So you can imagine i was terrified. He had a job as a delivery man at a restaurant but the pay was not enough for us to raise a family. Not to mention that my father was 81 at that time and he is very old fashioned (married first then kids). I was scared and I even thought of leaving him since for me abortion was not an option. One thing led to another that he found out I was pregnant and did not let me leave. I think the hardest part was telling my dad and seeing the disappointed look on his face. I knew he was angry and felt betrayed by me but he never said a word. We decided to stay together and now we have 3 wonderful girls and have been married for 6 years. What I am trying to say with all of this is that you NEVER know what the future has for you. You have been blessed with a child, a second opportunity to get it right. Eventually your family and your boyfriend will come around. Once they see that gorgeous baby and look into his or her eyes their hearts will melt just like your will when you see your BABY and hold him or her for the first time. There is no greater feeling that hearing your baby cry for the first time and feeling like you had something to do with the creation of a miracle. Many people will judge but at the end of the day you have to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and be proud of the woman that you are and have become.