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I have ben thr. Being on the pill I was dumb and skipped a couple and started. Also stress will delay your period. Weight loss will delay you period. A cold or secondary infection will affect your period. You can also delay you rperiod if you think you are pregnant. I am suspicious by nature, go to your socil services dept that gives free pregnancy tests or get another test 2 weeks from now.
Hi there, I can only say " Been the done that>" My ex husband seemed like a dem come true, I was in college, about to transfer, h was 3 years older , military! I had my son no thanks to him. It ended up being a disatster. It stareted s emotional abuse but quickly led to beatings once I moved to a different state. I was married to him for 10 years, he beat me countless times my son witnessed more than he should have, I finally divorced him almost 2 years ago and I am the happiest I have been in years. I did it on my own having left him sevearal tines ect. You can do it on your own, they will only drag you down and I too told myself a child need 2 parents when in reality a child only needs a loving parnt nothing good goo can come from an abusive relationship and if he is serious he will go to counseling, luck yo you.
All I can tell you is that if your boyfriend loves you and plans to stick by you then I feel you both should find a quiet moment to tell your parents, talking from experience, it will never matter how old you are when you get pregnant your parents will always feel betrayed. You are their life, all of there hopes and aspirations have been instilled in you, they had plans for you since the day you were born, this guilt will be with oyu always if you let it. Key words? your boyfriend needs to inform your parents that no matter the outcome is what has been done is done and this child will be there grandchild. be sure to inform your parents that you plan to graduate from high nschool and go onto college. It is hard but you can do it if your focused. Technically he can get in trouble onlymif your parents file a report but tell them you need a father there for your child. Keep your head up and keep me posted, much love
Hello, I am sorry you are going through this, however I will tell you there is a light at the end of the tunnell. I am not sure what the custody laws in your state is, but I can completely relate. It is unlikely that your ex will get physical custody of your child, the courts will seldom seperate children from their mothers unless they have deemed unfit, i.e drug issues, a unstable environment ect. My advice to you is to not waste any more time and visit your local child support services dept. then head right over to the cout and file for sole physical custody. Ask about waivers, if you are limited income wise there are services that will allow you to get these documents filed through the court at no cost to you except the copies of the documents you will need to file with the court. You will then be redirected to the local mediation dept. where you can state your case. You can state that you have had primary custody of your child since day 1. The courts will generally be for the best interest of the child, I wholly encourage you to do this. Log onto your state and child custody weblinks and utilize this info. Conatct me for further support. Goodluck!!!!!!
