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My first thought is maybe he’s scared. Maybe the fact that what he was trying actually happened just totally shocked him. But really, if he’s that scared now, he could get more scared in the future. But that may not happen like that at all. Take him for your first ob appointment and let him see the first ultrasound, trust me, it’s amazing and he may have a change of heart. Either way, no matter how he feels, it’s your child too, and you’re carrying it and it’s up to you to decide what’s best for you and the baby. Abortion will have lifetime regret and I would never want to feel such guilt just because my bf got cold feet. If you do keep it and he splits and you honestly feel you can’t do it, adoption is a great thing. But really, I think you can handle it and I know the love between a mother and her child is far stronger than a man can provide. I think you’ll be just fine and he will be too. You should tell him how important he is to you and how you feel about that child. I believe all things happen for a reason and if you have faith in God, you should pray about it. Good luck and be strong.
Lisa is right. that baby is so precious, no one can make you take it’s life! and social services can’t just take your baby. it seems like there would be a place that helps teen mothers and their children.
hun, i know what you’re going through. my husband left me on my due date for my ex best friend. but, i’m glad he did it, because i don’t want that sort of heartache around my son. you don’t deserve that kind of strees, especially while you’re pregnant. it will be ok. i promise.
