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I had a bad experience with a obgyn 8 years ago. I was 18 and pregnant with my third child and started bleeding at work. I knew what was happening so I went to the hospital. They ran some tests and did a vaginal ultrasound and found no baby. The doctor came in and said you are having a miscarriage. Of course I started to cry even though I wasn’t very far along it was still my baby.Then the doctor had the nerve to say before you start bawling you were very early into the pregnancy. My boyfriend(husband now) was right beside me and told him he better call security or get out of the room. You can imagine how the rest went down. Needless to say there are some very rude, nosy and heartless doctors out there. If you do not feel comfortable with this doctor I would suggest finding a new one. Havin a baby is a big deal and it helps if you have a doctor you really like. Trust me there are some wonderful ones out there.
I have three children that I had at a very young age. I had my youngest at 19,my oldest at 15 and one in the middle at 17. I never had an abortion ,but that is a personal choice and I am not pointing fingers. I just wanted to tell you that one choice does not mean you are not worthy of another child. Everyone is intitled to mess up now and then. My husband had a vasectomy 6 years ago and it was a mistake, now I would do anything for another child. You may change your mind in a few years and I hope you do. Children are a wonderfull blessing if you are ready for them. Don’t give up on a child of your own because of guilt. They are wonderful.
