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  • in reply to: HELP: My legal rights as the mother? #17657
    ashamilee
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    You don’t have to put his name on the birth certificate. How ever if you do have to persue child support in court and he is not listed as the father, you’ll have to wait for a paternity test.

    You are not required to have him the room when you are delivering. You don’t have to have any one there. it’s PATIENTS rights – not family rights.

    You can get a no contact order just based off of the fact that your concerned that he’s mentally unstable and he may attempt to hurt you. There doesn’t have to be any substantiation beyond that.

    If you don’t list him as the father on the BC, if he were to take the child or anything it would be considered kidnapping. if he wanted the child, he would need to fight for custody and first get a paternity test. He would have to prove that you are unfit – not that he is better. He has no rights if his name is not listed unless the court grants them. That may be your best bet.

    Good Luck!

    in reply to: "the show"..what was urs like? #17656
    ashamilee
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    The mucus plug honestly looks like a booger. It’s pretty discusting. It can be tinged red or pink.

    in reply to: In School #17655
    ashamilee
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    Day care, baby sitters etc. I know a couple colleges in my area (NE Washington) have day care programs right on campus that are run by their Early Child Hood Education students. As far as being in high school, your best bet is probably a baby sitter or a little home schooling.

    in reply to: Baby #3? #17421
    ashamilee
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    It’s not likely that its "too soon", but I have heard of stranger things.

    One thing is the level of HcG has to rise exponentially in the first few weeks for a pregnancy to be viable. If your HcG doesn’t rise, your body will expell the pregnancy because it cannot sustaine it. Have you spoken to your doctor about your symptoms and negative tests? Since your negative blood test results? Because if the symptoms are still present you should definitley look further into it.

    I also agree with the previous poster – it could very likely be a cyst or something of that nature. Either way you need to find out!

    in reply to: My mom and abortion #17393
    ashamilee
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    You need to talk to a lawyer specializing in family law in Ohio.

    Just from what I found googling Ohion state laws, the age of medical consent is 18. That means until you are 18 you do not have rights over your body, which means, yes, she can force you into an abortion. I could be wrong, but I found like five different websites stating that. If you do not have medical majority in your state, your mom can make you do anything and doctors and nurses cannot oppose her. They can refuse to do it, but that’s it.

    in reply to: are this the right sign… #17368
    ashamilee
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    Sounds a lot like it. At the same time, back in September of last year I was convinced I was pregnant. Had all of the symptoms, was moody, etc etc. My husband and I got excited and were making plans to move, all the works. Then in the middle of August, after five false pregnancy tests, my period came. I found out in January that I am pregnant, and I was 10 weeks when I found out. I had NO symptoms that time.

    My advice would be to go ahead and get the test out of the way. Buy one of the two packs, just in case you get a negative. The bad thing about home pregnancy tests is even if it says negative, you could still be pregnant. However, if it’s positive, your pregnant. It detects a hormone that is only present during pregnancy.

    Don’t let it eat at you. Talk to your parents and take the test. Or take the test and talk to your parents. How ever you want to go about it.

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