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wow kinda sounds like my life story.
i was 15 when i got pregnant on birth control. belive it or not i was using Depo Prevera and i still got pregnant.i was with my sons fther for 3 years and he was all about being there no matter what.. if i ended up getting pregnant that he woudl stand by me… well 5 days after i concieved on New Years Eve i took the test and i was Pregant.i told him that night and he left… littarly got on a plane and left that next morning. with out tellig me or anyone.
my son is now three and i am 19 and his father still isnt in his life. believe me as much as i wish at times he was just because scotty needs that father figure… my fiancee right now has accepted that responsibility. even though i am raising my son to try and know his real father…
sometime u just have to accept the fact ur goign to raise ur child on your own.. thats what i had to do …and sadly it looks that way for you to.
good luck either way
i was in the same situation. i got pregnant at 15, the father of mi son took off the day i told him i was pregnant. for three months of pregnancy i was single. just trying to get through highschool and get everything ready for my baby. my parents were no hel because they disapproved of me being pregnant. anyways, i finally found a guy who accepted the fact that i was pregnant and it wasnt his kid. so we started dating and he was there as my sons father figure for 3 years. we got engaged and things fell apart. he was always known as “daddy” because he was there from the beginning. well now that were not togeht he is still in mi sons if but only when its convient to him. i moved on and got married and again things didnt work out and yet another “daddy” was taken from my son. now i am currently in a serous relationship with a guy i pray will be with me forever. *he is nothing like the last two* and the one thing i make sure of is to let scott know that no matter who i am with its not his daddy.
the point behind this story is to help you see that yes you should make sure the person your dating is in your childs life but dont let her/him get attached if you dont feel he is going to be there forever.
my son will be turning 3 on Sept.19 and he has 1 dad and don *mi current fiancee* and thats all he needs.
wow, i was in the same situation except i only have one baby. mi parents wouldnt let me do anything. they have custody of my kids but thats because i was 14 when i got pregnant and had no insurance. so they used that against me. they used everything about him against me. until i finally said enough. my son is just that MINE.. same as yours… your sons are YOURS… being 17 and having twins sounds pretty hard but girl stand up… you are strong enough to decide to keep twins and not only that but you did do eveything else on your own..take ur kids and run with their daddy hopefully.. we are here for you dont get discouraged
