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A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.




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Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby’s life.




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I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents “I’m pregnant” can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.




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Fear of Telling

When I was 18, I went to a party with my sister. She hooks up with this guy, and well, they all told me to just go make out with this one guy. I did...

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i dont love the father

Well, I'm sixteen and I'm stuck with pregnancy. I didn't really want this to happen. It just did. The baby's father is a drug addict. And he's...

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Heart Broken

I feel that I need to tell my storey so that no one will make the mistake that I did. I am 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half...

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a lil girl haveing a baby

I was only 7 years old when it started, a good friend of the family was touching and raping my best friend. I didn't know what was going on, until...

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I NEED YOUR ADVICE COMPLETELY

OK so I will start off by saying this is not my 1st time getting pregnant. The 1st time I became pregnant, I let my dad and my mom and other people...

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im not sure..

Hi. Recently, I have just lost my virginity. I'm really scared because me and my partner did not use any protection. I can't be pregnant because I'm...

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Simply Amazed

I read Jasmyn's story and I was just amazed. I couldn't help but cry. I am a mother of three and one on the way and I just somewhat recently got out...

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introducing me

Hi, my name is sin and I'm pregnant. I am about 15 weeks but this Thursday, I will know for sure because I am having my first scan. I am 17 years...

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labor story

OK, so the night before I had the baby, Sep 11, I could not sleep. I kept getting period cramps and I just felt so uncomfortable... I was 37 weeks 6...

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my pain

I am in so much pain constantly emotionally. I had an abortion in February. I never wanted to do it. My boyfriend convinced me. He didn't even come...

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Am I Pregnant????

Period a week after Having Intercourse? Spotting?? I got my period September 3rd and then I had sexual intercourse on the 26th of Sept with my...

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It Can Be Done

Here I was, 20 years old with 3 children, no education, no guidance, not one person to truly help me.  To make a very long story short. I knew I had...

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I’M PREGNANT!

I finally took a pregnancy test tonight, and actually got the results I was hoping for. I'm PREGNANT! Yay!

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18 and nervous

Just last week, I found out I was pregnant. This is so very hard for me because I am in my first year in college away from home. My boyfriend lives...

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that empty feeling

Dear Becky, I am 17 and went through a lot with my pregnancy. Here's my story. My fiancé and I have been dating for almost a year. We got engaged in...

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Life after Abortion

When one speaks of abortion, one is often judged, offended, scorned, and scrutinized. What did I really expect??? I've been on the giving out...

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Abortion????

I'm 19 years old and I have a 2 1/2-month-old Baby boy. Hears the BIG!!!!! Problem.... I'm 3 weeks pregnant and thinking about having an abortion. I...

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Where oh were to start…

Hey everyone. I'm new to this site, but I'm absolutely in love with it!! So kudos to those who created it. Anyways, so I personally think I have a...

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pro-choice what now?

There are times I go back and forth. I am going through so much right now. I got married on a whim a few months ago. He already has 2 kids from 2...

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