I recently had a doctor’s appointment… Found out my baby’s a girl. 🙂
Other than THAAAT, life’s been difficult, however. I’m beginning to feel a bit more calm and at ease with the idea that I’m growing… or the baby is, lol. Either way, my waistline’s changing drastically. I’m getting bored, I want a Slurpee with fries and nacho cheese.
Peace.
I am currently a 21 yrs old college student residing in Miami, FL.
My boyfriend and I have been engaged in intimate behavior for several months now; and we always relied on the rhythm method as a form of birth control and I never really thought about pregnancy as an issue.
Recently; I have missed my period and tested positive on the pregnancy test – I am so scared and don’t know where to turn to for help…please offer any advice you may have.
Thanks,
Alicia
Hey, I got pregnant when I was 14, almost 15.
Me and my boyfriend had been together for months, and he seemed like the real thing. We weren’t planning it, we weren’t expecting it to happen, yet it still did. I am now 16 with a 1-year-old little boy, who has no daddy. His father and I split when he was about 2 months old, and we haven’t really talked since. His dad tells my mom that he is going to come see my baby, yet he never shows. I just wish that he would be in my son’s life… Why won’t he be??
My baby is so sweet, he’s always happy, and he is so smart. He turned 1 on December 9th, yet his father hasn’t seen him since then. My baby is bigger than most, he is in the 90th percentile right now, and he is just at my thigh in height, I am 5’6. Everything I do, I do for him. I go to school still so he can have a future that is amazing. Every time I get money, it goes to him, and all of my free time is with him unless he is in bed or my parents have him. Yet, his father still isn’t around. He is deep into drugs and alcohol, he moved away, and he sells drugs. I just don’t understand why.
How could a father not love a beautiful baby boy like my son?!
Well in little over a week, it will be 2 years since my abortion, and yet it still feels like it was last week.
I still have my sonogram from when I went into the clinic. My boyfriend doesn’t know I have it…but I needed something to remind me that my baby was real. I am trying my absolute hardest to come to terms with my decision, but I can’t. My boyfriend wants me to talk to someone in his church about it, but I can’t, especially someone from a church. I don’t want to be judged… This last Sunday, I went to church with him and they were starting off with their pregnancy resource center charity fundraiser event (of course). But that day, I heard word-for-word what I have been terrified about hearing going to church. I couldn’t help it, I started crying. It hurt so badly listening to that. I didn’t want my boyfriend to see, but he did. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to hear in my life. I know what I did was horrible, but I’ve never had to hear someone say exactly how horrible what I did was…
Why can’t I just get over my abortion!!? I want it behind me! I don’t want to cry every time abortion is mentioned! I don’t want to be jealous every time I hear someone is pregnant!
I just want my baby girl back… Is that so bad? My boyfriend said if I got pregnant again before we were married, he would marry me before the baby was born, but then how would I ever know if he married me because he wanted to, or just because he got me pregnant again? Last night, he told me that he doesn’t feel comfortable having sex with me because he’s scared that I will get pregnant again…I was already feeling horrible about everything that’s happened this week and now my boyfriend won’t even touch me?! Really?!?!
I want things to be like it never happened. But I always feel like I am carrying this guilt alone. He never shows any sort of emotion when it comes to this subject. Why can he get over it so quickly when I can’t? Someone, please help me! What did you do to get over your abortion? 🙁 🙁
ugh these past 7 months have been ups and downs and twist and turns.
it is not all that bad though. even though i am 16 and pregnant, i am still fighting for my goals. i have to for my child is part of my future that i must make wonderful for her.
God has blessed me big time though. The father ran out before i found out I was pregnant. It was a shock when i found out 5 months after it had happened. My mom freaked at first and wanted me to have an abortion. my dad amazing was calm and knew that everything would work out. I was so worried that she would be unhealthy or hurt because i cheered for the first five months of my pregnancy and got physically attacked at 3 months pregnant.
She is healthy as can be for what the doctors tell me. she is very tiny though, not premie but little:)
i pray that she does not have sex during high school but we can discuss that when that time comes
ive learned a lot about myself and that i am a very strong person. it is amazing how one small human can change your whole life and perspective on life
Read my blogs to learn more about my journey and what my future will be in the future
Been to the doctor and decided to keep the baby.
I don’t know if my boyfriend is going to stand by me because he doesn’t want to be a dad, but this is the right choice for me and I’ve realized that I need to do this for me.
