Well, one of the hardest things to do when you first find out when you’re pregnant at a young age is telling your parents.
The feeling is so scary, but it is best to tell them while it’s early so they know. When I found out I was pregnant, I told my mom immediately. I thought she was going to cut me off or like be extremely mad, but I was wrong. She was surprisingly calm & in a weird way, happy about it. I guess this is because she experienced when my older brother got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 16 & she was 15. Man, do I remember that. But the thing is, tell your parents you love them before you say anything. Make sure they’re in a calm mood, you’re talking to them in a quiet place with no interruptions, then spit it out…… That’s what I did, & my mom is happy that I didn’t lie to her…
I hope this helped some of you girls… Be brave.
alright my bf left me and the baby about a month ago and i’m crying still cause she only one today and i’m 15 and he is 20 and i was 14 when i had the child and now i’m in the 9 grade so yea i was and had the baby in 8th grade……i just feel depressed
I was 19 when I got pregnant.
It was stupid and I had played with fire, so deserved to get burnt I suppose. For a quick bit of fun down at the beach, I’ve caused myself a world of hurt. The dad (that sounds odd) was also my age. We’d been seeing each other for about a year and a half. I remember telling him before I even knew for sure that I thought I was pregnant. He had told me, “Don’t worry, we’ll figure this out together”. There was NO together. I found out New Year’s Eve and told him straight away. I felt sick and scared and more alone than ever. He drank the night away, enjoying every second. He ignored my phone calls and texts. He ignored everything that was happening. About a week later, he came and told me it was my body and I could do what I wanted. He didn’t feel like he was old enough for a kid. So basically, if I wanted to take responsibility, then I would have to do it alone. I got an abortion on the 8th of February. I took a risk and the risk turned into a little person inside of me who had done NO wrong. It did not ask for me to be its mum. It did not ask to be unwanted and resented. I am a good person. Really I am. But that day in February, I turned into someone I don’t recognize. A good person that kills their first baby? I will not ask for forgiveness because honestly, I don’t think I deserve it.
I’ve been going to counseling for about a month now. It helps. I am doing a nursing course and I will not take a life in Vain. I want to help other people make a decision that is RIGHT for their reasons, not for society or religion or for anyone else. Your pastor can not carry your baby. Neither can your mum or dad or friend or boyfriend. Nobody but you (excuse the pun). I got an abortion because it wasn’t right for me. How could I have brought up a little person when I would have resented every move it made? Life is special and holy and all that la de dah, but please so is your life. I carry a rock of guilt around me softened by the feeling that what I did wasn’t morally right for me, but in every other way, I made the best decision.
Don’t listen to anyone but yourself. YOU and You alone have to live with it. It’s hard sometimes. That’s good. It showed you cared and made all the wrong decisions for the right reason. Don’t live in regret.
There’s so much hurt I feel from having 2 abortions.
The first one was in July 2010 and not long after that, my boyfriend and I decided we would have a baby then he changed his mind. I told him I was and he was at work and didn’t like it. I felt stupid that I let him do it. That was September 2010.
The first abortion was because I got raped by someone close to me and didn’t expect that to happen. The second one was his…and he just had… 1st baby September 30, 2010, I kept the 2 ultrasound pics to remind me that I wish I could have had a beautiful tiny baby in me 8 months I would have been or I would have had a lil one already.
I live with him now. I look at his baby girl and it breaks my heart.
Hi guys.
By the way, I’m only 21… I’m working as a tutor for Koreans here in my country. which is the Philippines. I’m just a little confused if I’m pregnant. My breast and abdomen were sore for more than a week. Usually, this happens when my period is about to start, right. My period is regular every 7th or 6th of the month. but it’s already the 10th of April. I already searched for some signs that you are pregnant and I’m a bit shocked that these are some of the signs.
I just wanna share guys. and if u can give me some advice or etc. 🙂
Well, I’m sure you guys know me by now.
I have a lot of problems, but not with my pregnancy. I’ve been having a lot of stress lately & I know that’s a bad thing for my baby, but I just can’t help but cry & cry about my mom. Being the only female child in a family with 4 kids is somewhat tough for me. Is being emotional part of being pregnant?
I’m really close to my mom and when she’s away, it’s really hard for me. Especially now when I’m pregnant. I can talk to her about almost everything. In fact, I do tell her everything. I miss her a lot & I cry when I do miss her. I fight with her husband a lot [my stepdad] well it’s not really my fault either but still. Oh, but I do want to write about my boyfriend. lol. We’re living together at my place. He’s basically the one to take care of me and I’m so thankful for him. He’s been so supportive. I’m glad I found him and he’s really excited to be a daddy. But with the good, there are the bads. I fight with him, not a lot but like couples do. I don’t know how to control my feelings. If I hear something I don’t like, I would start balling my eyes out. & that’s why he gets mad at me, I know he loves me & that’s why we argue, because he’s right. *sigh*
I need some advice on how not to be so emotional. If that is possible.
