I’m 15 and this is my blog called “Parents Just Don’t Understand Nowadays”.
They think it’s better if they take your child and raise him. Well, I learned it’s not! At all! they convinced me it will all be the same, nothing will change. Well if they say that, don’t believe them! They are lying straight to your face! I was basically forced to sign over custody thinking, “Oh well I’m still going to take care of him. I’m going to feed him and love him and bath him and change him and burp him and play with him!” hahahaha. I was lied to! I haven’t done anything with him! My parents won’t let me even touch him! It’s like they are making him a punishment to me! I’m not allowed to see or play with him or anything! But we live in the same house so I’m told I’m being stupid by saying that we live together so they are not taking him away from me. Well, it’s true that they are wrong! I don’t have one reason why I shouldn’t fight for him! Now I know I’m 15, but I’m still his mother and when you have your son taken away from you, that’s when it’s time to fight back.
Please message me back on here if you have any comments!
I guess I feel a little better now. Everyone is right. If you make a blog and stick with it, you’ll feel a little bit better. For now, goodbye unless you message me. BYE-BYE.:)
Everyone was saying that being a mom at 16 would be hard. What I have learned is that people build stuff up to the point where it seems like you won’t be able to handle what is going to come. For me, I have found that things are not as hard as everyone said they would be. There are times were it has been hard, but there have been times where it has been very easy. Things are not what I thought, but they are not as hard as people were saying.
My whole life, all I’ve wanted was to be a mom. Now I’m married and it’s only been 1 month and all I can think about is wanting that child. I feel selfish because if we were to get pregnant right now, I know that we would have a hard time providing the support and life that a child should have. Why am I so obsessed with this!? I would do anything to be able to turn off my brain and just be a happy newlywed that is happy with where her life is right now 🙁
I am 22 years old and I just found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant.
I’m going into my final year at university, and hardly have any money to provide for the baby. And I’m worried if I have the baby, I won’t be able to cope, in many ways. I don’t know if I’ll be able to finish uni. The other thing is that I’ve been with my boyfriend for only 3 months even though I went out with him when I was 16 and we got back together. He wants the baby, but I don’t know if I love him and I would be trapped with him if I have the baby. He’s already got another child and he wants me to look after the child as well as mine once I get a place of my own. But that would be waaay too much for me to cope with. I can barely come to terms with looking after my own child. I don’t agree with abortion. Every time I think about aborting my baby, I feel like crying so much. I don’t know if I can live with myself aborting my own baby, but I also feel like it’s my only choice.
I really need some advice from someone desperately as I’ve booked an abortion appointment on Saturday but I still don’t know what to do.
Baby Dust
Wanting, hoping, waiting, and praying.
To have a little one to call our own.
Getting tired of trying and failing.
Just want to make our house a home.
When is it going to be our turn for a baby?
There is this emptiness in completing our family,
This is really driving us crazy!
Maybe one day it will be our time for joy,
Until then we must stay strong and keep hoping
Please pray for us and sprinkle that baby dust upon us!
I’m 21 years old…and I never thought this would happen.
I’m so nervous. I’m so confused. I don’t know if I can keep it…or if I should abort it. I know it all comes down to MY decision.. but I’ve never felt so lost before in my entire life. My boyfriend says he supports me in whatever decision I happen to make… but would rather me have an abortion. The cons outweigh the pros it seems. I’m scared I’ll regret the abortion.. but I’m scared I’ll get into the pregnancy and regret that as well. I’ve never really agreed with abortion… I guess cause I’ve never had to consider it before… I feel selfish for even THINKING about it. My emotions are everywhere.. ugh What to do… What to do…. ??????
