I’m 16 years old, and I’m 19 weeks pregnant. I find out what the sex of my baby Nov. 8th, which is only 9 days away. I’m soooo excited!
I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for being so brave to share your stories. I have grown up soo much already. I was living a crazy lifestyle, drinking waay too much, hanging out with the wrong people… You get the idea. BUT, believe it or not, this is the best thing that could have ever happened to me, despite what people have to say. In some ways, I think it’s saved my life. I’m single, the father of my baby is (let’s just say irresponsible) and has moved away. So I just wanted to let all the ladies (young and old) who are doing this alone, I feel for you!! Sometimes, it feels like it’s just too hard to go on, like your life is being ripped away. Trust me, I know what it’s like to sit at home every night by yourself. Your “friends” have just seemed to vanish. People look at you and treat you differently. It may seem like everything is crashing down, but remember what you have to look forward too, a beautiful little being that you’ve created, who is going to need you just as much as you need them.
Much love,
I’m 20, a good student and I thought life couldn’t be better but about 5 months ago, I met this awesome guy.
He was just made for me and we started dating. About a few weeks ago, we had sex and now I think there is a chance that I might be pregnant. The only problem is he finally came clean and told me that when we started dating, he already had a girl and she is about 6 months pregnant. He says that he loves me more and that he is only with her because she is gonna have his child. I really don’t know what to do.
If you have some advice, anyone, then plz tell me coz I don’t know what to do.
I am 19 and due in less than a month, with a baby boy.
I have chosen to give the baby up for adoption. I know it’s the best choice for the baby. I think that my ex is the father and he just recently went to jail, so now he won’t be around when I give birth. If he’s not the father, then I don’t know who is. Around the time I got pregnant, I was hitchhiking and some bad things happened that I haven’t told anyone about. I feel it’s not fair to the birth father if this baby’s not his.
I’m getting close to delivery and I don’t know what to do or tell everyone.
So here goes nothing….. I am 17 years old. I will be 18 Jan. 5! I recently had a beautiful baby boy who amazes me everyday at the things he can do at only 4 months old!
It all started back on Oct. 14. I was 16 and I thought I had met an amazing guy who was 18 at the time. I took him to my homecoming and on Oct. 14, my son was conceived. And I was only 16! I told ma family right away and my dad wouldn’t talk to me for the longest time and at first, tried to ground me like it was all going to go away! My mom and stepmom were understanding and supported me in whatever decision I made. I sat down with the baby’s daddy and we talked of all our options and we both agreed. We laid down and made the mistake so now we are going to take responsibility for our actions and so we did. We decided that no matter what anyone said, we would keep our baby.
I found out I was having a boy when i was 4 1/2 to 5 months prego and oh boy! My dad and boyfriend were so excited! They started going on and on about what he was going to be when he gets older and he wasn’t even here yet! Well don’t you know it, I was due 7/7 but my lil booger was ready to meet the world and the world to meet him. He came 2 weeks early on June 21! I did it all by myself. I had no medicine, no nothing. All I had was the support on my grandma, my lil sister, and my step mom…. And at 2:15 am, my lil man came out with 2 pushes, and my grandmother cut his the cord! My boyfriend was out of town and my grandma didn’t know how to use a cell phone so she was trying to call him and my mom while I was laboring! I only labored for 1 hour and 45 minutes! It was the worst pain ever but man, was it worth it! My boyfriend and ma mom got there after I had him! And as soon as my boyfriend saw him, he cried. It was the most amazing thing ever! I didn’t get no pain meds till afterwards and I’m glad I didn’t cause I would have been tired afterwards. I mean I was tired but I wasn’t all drugged out and tired!
This was a life changing experience for me! For the 1st few weeks, it didn’t even feel like he was mine but he was! I wake up every morning at 5:30 to get ma lil booger ready and then my dad takes him to my grandmother’s, who watches him while I go to school. Then I go home and get my lil booger and no matter how bad of a day I’ve had, when he smiles at me, I cant help but to smile back and laugh!
My lil boogers name is HAYDEN JOHN FOXX!
Ugh… I am SO glad I found this site. I’m 14 years old, and I’ve read a lot of stories about girls my age with children. Ever since I was a little girl, I’ve absolutely ADORED kids. I’ve always been surrounded by them, and I’m great at taking care of them. A lot of people ask me to babysit for them because I can keep the children entertained for long periods of time, and I can change my moods 180 degrees when I need to.
Now, here’s my problem: Lately, as in, for the past year or so, I’ve been having these… dreams, I guess you could call them, where I’ve either been pregnant or had a child of my own. They’re really starting to get to me now. What I’m trying to say is, I think I WANT a baby, but at the same time, I know that I don’t. I know I should wait because I know what goes along with the responsibility. I have tons of experience with kids between 0-12 years old, so I know what’s involved with taking care of them. I also know how expensive baby stuff is because I have spent a lot of time on babiesrus.com and amazon.com in the baby section just scoping out the average prices.
I just wish there was something I could do to get rid of the urge… I’m afraid that someday, my reasoning with myself isn’t going to be enough and I’m going to give into the urges.
Okay So I had my son on May 7……..and my period came back normal 4 months after I had him.
A month and a half ago, I thought I was pregnant. But the pregnancy tests came out negative. But then out of nowhere this month, I didn’t get my period. Soo I took a pregnancy test… It came out positive… I took 7 pregnancy tests and they all came out positive… So this morning, I went to the hospital by my house, and got a blood test then… And guess what..? It came back NEGATIVE… saying I’m not pregnant and the urine test for the hospital came out negative twice…. And I don’t understand why. I still haven’t gotten my period. I’m a week and 2 days late… And it’s never ever been that late before… And I been feeling sick. Like how I did when I found out I was pregnant with my son. The doctor didn’t know what to say… He said that I’m going to miss my periods cause I’m young and that the pregnancy tests were not accurate. But I took 2 more pregnancy tests after I came out the hospital and they both came out POSITIVE!!!……… I don’t know why or how this could be happening….
Could I even be pregnant? I even threw up twice…. Please comment back to this. I need advice A.S.A.P!
P.S. the first 2 pregnancy tests I took were called Facts Plus. And the other 5 were called First Response.
