Hey, I’m 16 years old and pregnant…
I’m only 1 month…and I still haven’t told my parents… I’m still scared of what they might say…b/c the guy I’m pregnant by is 25 years old and my mother don’t like him…and he really isn’t the guy I wanna be pregnant by either. It was an accident… I know my mom is going to kick me out when I tell her and I would have nowhere to go but to the baby’s daddy’s…I know he would take care of us, but I don’t love him… I don’t know if I even like him…
I’m so confused and I am stuck… I have been searching the net all day trying to find some advice…I need to know how I can tell my parents… I know abortion is not even an option. I would never do that… That is murder in my eyes… I’m so scared… I am in love with this other guy but I know he won’t have me when he learns I’m pregnant… IDK though, he has a 2 year old…but she lives with her mom…. But anyway, if anyone can help me, I would appreciate it extremely…
Someone, please help… I need all the advice I can get….
Thx much…
Hey, here is my story!!
I was dating my boyfriend of 1 1/2 -2 years……. I found out that he had cheated on me and I was so crushed and didn’t know what 2 do. Luckily, my best friend was there to help…… I left him and then I got with this boy that I really liked…… I was with him for like 1 1/2 months and I found out I was pregnant… I left the guy I was with and I told my baby’s dad I was PREGNANT…He said that it wasn’t his and that he didn’t want anything to do with me anymore so just leave him alone…And that’s what I did…
I was crushed nobody wanted me!… I finally told my mom and she suggested that I get an abortion…..I told her no and she got mad and kicked me out….. I moved in with my grandma and she helped me get through it all!!!….. My boyfriend called me and told me that he was sorry and that it was his responsibility to take care of me and the baby so that is what he is doin’. I moved in with him and we are still together….. I had my beautiful baby girl on February 2 at 6:41 a.m. She weighed in at 5 lbs. 13oz. and she was 17 2/3 inches long and we named her Adisen Shayde……
And after she came, all is good with me and my family again….and her daddy has been there with us and hopefully till tha end!
My baby girl will be here 2/12. Well, that’s her expected due date.
I can’t wait and I am so excited.
Bleh… It feels like everyday when I go to school, I’m miserably exhausted. I just pull through each day because I know I NEED to get through school. I don’t want to be tempted to drop out. I’m hoping to go to this school close to my town for pregnant teens. It’s at Rockville Hospital and they give you two months off for having your baby, and then after you have it, you can bring your baby to school, and they take care of it while you’re in your classes.
My little problem here is that I HATE the school I’m in right now. It seems like every school I go to never works out. But for the first time in a while, I’m getting good grades. So my mom thinks I should stick it out until the end of the year, but I have my baby in May (May 20th), so I definitely don’t want to be going to a mixed-up school with 6th- 8th graders and having them ask me questions. I’m supposed to be graduating this year. I was stupid and didn’t want to do my work for two years so I stayed back twice.
So I’m in tenth grade. Next year I’ll be 11th, but it’s taking soo long and it feels like I’m going to be in school forever. Now in addition to going to school, I work two jobs to save up money. My boyfriend is 19, so he already graduated from high school but he doesn’t have a job.
Well in addition, I have to deal with court issues. I still have like a hundred hours to complete, by May 18th.
Well, as you can tell, sixteen and pregnant. The only people that know are my boyfriend, his sister, and my best friend.
We are kind of happy about it, but also terrified of what our parents will do. My family is hard-core catholic and his congregationalist. We will both probably get kicked out, but we both want this baby.
Any suggestions??
So were trying again… We decided we can’t wait…
Well, I say trying, but those of you who I’ve started speaking to will know we don’t really get to ”try” very often at all, so I know when it happens. It was supposed to happen because for now, me getting pregnant will be an off-chance sorta thing…
Oh, and good news…well…kinda… My cousin’s pregnant! Yeah… We were talking yesterday and she seems to be better coming around to the idea. So I’m happy for her. What’s strange is I had a dream ages ago that she came over here to have a baby and she had a girl and I was pregnant with a boy… So fingers crossed…I get a boy…I know she probably wants a girl. Plus, what’s cool is that in the dream, it was summer and her baby’s due on July 1! How amazing is that!?
But yah, so happy news all around really and we’ll just have to wait a couple weeks to see if we’ve ben successful… If not, then maybe next time… Wish me luck!
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