Hello Everyone,
So my story…..
Well since I’ve moved here, I have been lucky enough to find the love of my life (soon to be married). My boyfriend and I have been together now for 10 months. We are moving out together once I graduate in June and then it’s college in September…
Although on Feb 2nd, we lost our virginity to each other :). I’m so glad I got to share that with him. Since we’ve been sexually active, I’ve found myself longing for something more. I’m happy with him and I’m very involved with school, etc… But why am I having the feeling of wanting a baby?
It’s almost like I’m craving for a child? Yes I am 17, waaaaaay tooo young, people say. And especially to purposely try to have a baby. I am NOT trying this on purpose. My boyfriend does want children, just not right now…and I don’t either, but I’m finding myself becoming confused.
We only use birth control (“the pill”) and he doesn’t pull out. So far, its been about 3 weeks and I took a test…not prego.
Which is good, right? Yes! it is… Then why did I feel so bad when only that 1 pink line showed up?
I just want to know if any other girls get this need?
I know I’m meant to be a mother. There is nothing I want more in life. But I also know its waaay too freaking early and “I have my whole life ahead of me”, which is what everyone says. lol
I know my boyfriend and I could support ourselves and the baby fine. We would manage.
It’s almost like I cant wait to get pregnant! ;p Am I just a lunatic? Or is this normal?
Hey, I am 15 years old. I found out that I am pregnant. My boyfriend is 16 years old. Now I need to abort this child.
I know I am really young. but I don’t know how will it all work out. I actually don’t want to abort this child. But I can’t even keep it. I love my boyfriend and he too loves me a lot. We don’t know how we will abort this child. I live in India. I don’t even know what the charges will be. I can’t share this with anyone else. Otherwise, I’ll be dead.
Please help.
Two days ago, I found out I was pregnant with my new boyfriend.
I was dating a boy for three years and found out he was cheating on me with my best friend for the past three months. I left him and started dating my current boyfriend. To make my ex jealous, I became sexually active with my new boyfriend. I told him today I was pregnant. When I told him, his face was immediately in a state of shock. Abortion is NEVER an option for me, but that is where we disagree. He told me that if I didn’t terminate the pregnancy that he would leave me. So as of an hour ago, I am single and expecting a baby in nine months.
My parents don’t know yet, and I’m, not sure how to tell them. I need advice? I am so lost.
When I found out I was pregnant, I was scared and the first thing that came into my head was what’s next?
My partner is over the moon, but we both were scared about what our families would say. But the first step was to try and work out how many weeks I was. My sister was the first person I told and she sat my mom down and told her for me. I’m now 13 weeks pregnant and I’m 15 years old, and the day I decided to keep my little angel was the day I felt like I meant something to everyone, I will never forget the day I decided I was keeping my baby.
This baby means the world to me and anyone that is in a position where they do not know what to do. One thing you should know is don’t let anyone else put stuff into your head, even if it’s keeping the baby or not. It’s your choice and you make the choice as long as it takes. It’s your body, you decide.
Keeping my baby was the best thing i have ever ever done in my life
15mum2be x
I was a senior in high school and dating my best friend. In December, the condom broke and I got pregnant. I decided to keep my baby. My senior year, unfortunately, was no fun at all. I was responsible for a new life. I was excited and scared, all at the same time. My baby was born on September 6, two days before her E.D.D. She was in perfect health, 8 lbs. 12 oz. I love my baby Lily.
I’m 18 now, and she is seven months old. Her dad and I are still together and doing great. I work 40-hour weeks at a daycare with my baby and go to college full-time as well. So does her dad. We are doing our best for our baby girl. Everything she has, we buy. We don’t ask for help. We can do this on our own.
I love taking my baby out and spending time with her. But I hate the looks I get. Everywhere I go, people take one look at her and then at me and just shake their heads. They don’t know my situation. I’m sure they think that I am a slacker teen who is irresponsible and relying on others for my baby.
My friends left me as soon as we graduated. Sure, there is the occasional Facebook message, but really…. I have no one except my baby and my boyfriend. I love them both so much. But it really isn’t the same as having girlfriends to hang out with. I don’t know any other people who are in a situation like mine… and I would like to make friends who are teen moms.
I just feel so alone without people to talk to about girl stuff.
So, I am not a big blogger, but here it goes.
I am missing my two-year-old son so much.
I got pregnant at the age of fourteen and found out 9 days before my 15 birthday. I had him in September 24. His name is Ja’ziah. I had him while living in a home for young mothers. I stayed there until he was 3 months then he went on a temporary placement due to my lack of stability at my mother’s home. Now let me tell you she is an alcoholic. I went back to that home when he was 6 months then stayed again until he was a little over one. We tried to move in with my mom, but her drinking was so bad he got stressed because I was stressed and Daddy couldn’t be around because my mom had placed a protection from abuse order on him. So he was pounding his head off of walls, his crib, the floor, the bathtub, my goodness. That’s when I decided he needed a better home. So his auntie took him for a while then these wonderful people came into the picture and wanted to adopt him. His adoption has been finalized for about 1.5 months now. I miss him. I only get a picture here and there. He’s so big now. Talks a mile a minute I guess. His auntie still sees him, but I don’t and it hurts that it was supposed to be a open adoption! I can’t help, but to cry and ramble.
Please forgive me as I am new to this. Thanks
