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Hi, so I’m 15 years of age.

I and my boyfriend had sex (unprotected) & I’m two weeks late on my period. I’ve been craving pickles and ice cream. The weird thing is I have ALWAYS hated pickles. Umm, my breast is kinda sore. I have been really whiny. I don’t know what I should do. I can buy the test but I don’t know how I could hide it from my mom. Is there a place I could go to get tested so that I wouldn’t have to bring an adult?

Please help.

Emotional Rollercoaster;

Two days ago, I took a home pregnancy test. Actually, I took two. Two Lines. Both positive. I’m pregnant.

I’m 19  years old. I’ve been with my man for a year and a half now. I thought about waiting to tell him until I had a chance to go to the doctors and all that. But then I thought, no, he has a right to know, and he’ll be able to give me some support so I don’t have to deal with this alone. Never had abortion even crossed my mind, not for one second. I had to tell him over the phone because he’s out of town right now. The reaction I got wasn’t what I had been expecting. Over and over, it ran through my mind that he would be happy, excited, shocked, but still happy. At first, it was like okay, you’re pregnant, we can do this. But then as the conversation progressed, it turned more into, well why can’t we wait another year, until we have a house, until we have some money set aside. All his concerns are normal. Obviously, to have a baby, we need space, we need money. But in my opinion, we’re good. I’m the type of person who believes Everything Happens For A Reason.

I believe that I got pregnant because I’m suppose to be pregnant, this is our time. It may not be the best time, and we certainly weren’t expecting this, but it’s a blessing, not a burden. He thinks different. He wants me to get an abortion. I can’t stop crying. He doesn’t understand how much this is killing me. I want this baby. This is OUR baby inside of me, and he wants to kill it? I never in a million years thought we would be having this argument about OUR baby. I can’t stop crying. We haven’t spoken at all today. I have nothing to say to him. I want this baby, and I want him to want this baby. It’s so hard when you see a side of someone that you never saw before, especially the man you love. How do you handle it? What can I say to this man to change his mind? Why doesn’t he trust that we’ll be okay? I can’t eat, can’t sleep properly, can’t stop crying, I’m dealing with these pregnancy symptoms, I’m nauseous, I’m an emotional mess. At a time where I need my man the most, I’m most alone. I haven’t even told my mother because if I do, and then I get this abortion, she’ll be crushed. I wanted to tell his mother, cause maybe she could knock some sense into him, but decided against that. I don’t need him to be upset with me. We need to be on the same page. I don’t know what we’re going to do. But I know we’ll both regret it if I get an abortion. I can’t believe we’re even discussing that option. It will kill me. And I’ll end up resenting him for making me do it.

Crying… Until next time.

Mommy and still in high school

I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant with my first child, Skyler. I was with her father for almost 3 years. When I told him he was going to be a daddy, he left me after 3 months into my pregnancy!

After that happened, I tried to focus on me and my daughter! Skyler’s dad hasn’t seen her ever! Which makes me think that he wouldn’t have even loved Skyler if he stayed.

When I had just turned 18, I found out I was pregnant again with Dylan, my baby boy. His daddy stayed up until Dylan turned 1. He left because he couldn’t handle being a dad to Dylan or a stepdad to Skyler. Dylan has just turned 2 and Skyler just turned 3. I can’t imagine my life without them both. They walk with smiles which makes me happy… I wouldn’t have ever thought at 17 that I was gunna to be a mommy and still be in high school, trying to graduate. Both pregnancies, I was in school. Belly growing, people didn’t understand why I kept them and not got a abortion when I found out… I am a Proud to be a Mother!

Now since I’m 20 now, I can’t picture my life any different. Skyler weighed 9-12 and Dylan was 7-11. Both were born 2 weeks before their due date. Now I am expecting my 3rd child with my new man I started dating 9 months ago. I am bout 9 weeks now.

Will I Ever Learn?

So guess what? I may be pregos AGAIN!

if you don’t know me, this is what happened. I had unprotected sex, took Plan B, got pregnant, miscarried, and was depressed and in pain for 3 weeks. The father was an idiot anyway, and I was gonna go with adoption.

OK, now present time.

It’s been a few months, almost four months since I got pregnant. I got Implanon put in on Thursday. I had unprotected sex with a guy that I love. So he wasn’t in me long and he didn’t cum, but there’s always that chance with precum. Then the next day, we had protected sex again, then Sunday, we didn’t have sex, then Monday, we had protected sex again. My vagina was really swollen, which it was after I had sex when I got pregnant. But i haven’t been thinking that I’m pregnant, just like too dry or something. But today, I took a quiz on what’s my symbol and I got the phoenix, which a phoenix represents a baby to me. Last time I was pregnant, my dad gave me a phoenix necklace the week before I took the test. Now I’m paranoid and I know I’m horribly superstitious, but i believe in it and I cant find out for like a whole month whether I’m pregnant or not. Oh yeah, Friday was the last day of my period.  So other then the phoenix, I’m pretty much not pregnant. But the phoenix out ways everything to me.
Seeing as I love my boyfriend and he loves me and we were already planning on getting married and having kids someday, that makes the decision if I am pregnant a lot harder. Cause it was easy when I hated the father, I was gonna go with adoption, but idk this time.

Does anyone know if a pregnancy test works if you have Implanon in you?
I’d love to talk to anyone. I mean I already have friends on here, but I love new friends. 🙂

so confused

Hey 🙂

I’m new here and I just need someone who’s gonna talk to me and give back the info that I need cuz people who I’ve been talking to have been telling me things like I’m too young, I don’t know what I want, I don’t know what’s best for me, and stuff like that. But I think I am old enough to know what I want and what’s best for me and my unborn child.

I just found out I was prego 3 days ago. I’m not really worried cuz I’m graduating from high school in June. I’mma taking up an online college so I can stay at home with my baby. My baby father is very happy with it, but I wonder how long that’s bout to last. lol. All my friends’ baby daddies are happy at first then it changes either right before the baby is born or soon after. I just hope I got one of the good ones that’s gonna stick beside me. If he don’t, I got a job and I know my mom will stick beside me till the end. But I just don’t know how I’mma tell her. She’s gonna be so mad cuz she tells me all the time, “I ain’t ready to be no grandma.” I would just laugh at her. I didn’t think I would even get prego. I thought I couldn’t even have kids. I was prego once before but I had a miscarriage. Idk if that was from me or my boyfriend that I had at the moment cuz me and him got into a fight, but I got to go now so till next time.

Smoochezzz:)