I recently just found out that I’m prego. Lately, I haven’t been feeling well and dealing with my boyfriend seems to be a never-ending war.
I talked to him about it and he was really supportive and wants to keep the baby just like I do.
But there is one thing I haven’t told my family yet. I’m just scared I don’t know how to really. They are going to be so disappointed in me and probably say anything to me at the time because of their hurt… I just found out yesterday that I am… and already my boyfriend wants to tell the family… I’m not ready to tell them yet. I mean, I love his attitude to want to say something, but we don’t even have a plan right now, as to how we are going to take care of this child. And stay together considering that he is about to go off to college for his 1st year. He is going to a place that is only two hours away, but at the same time, he might be living at home and just driving to school every day or he could be staying on campus….. But anyways, I’m just confused on whether or not I should tell my family right now or wait… Because when I go to them, I want to have a PLAN A, B, & C… So that when they ask us what are we going to do, we won’t just be standing there looking dumb with nothing in mind…
This is sooo much on me… I never thought that this would be, but it is. Soooo, I gotta deal with it and keep my head up…
I remember it so clearly like as if it were just yesterday, inside my bedroom, laying on my bed watching “The Stepfather” together.
You, of course, were lying on your fav spot, near the wall. While me,
in your arms, cuddling and enjoying the moment. So happy we were.
I truly miss those days….now.
We pass by each other like we’ve never met. Like we had no clue. But how can you? Since I’m pregnant with your child. Walking by me and acting like we didn’t happen.
it hurts so much, to see you with another. And I can’t be.
because I’m pregnant. Who would want to date a girl who is pregnant with someone else’s
child? And after birth, who would want to be with a girl with someone else’s child?
No guy. This isn’t the Secret Life of the American Teenager… There is no guy like Ben out there.
But one day, you’ll miss me. and when you see your baby for the first time, you’ll do whatever it takes to get back into my life.
One day, and on that one day; I’ll move on.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and since the pregnancy, he seems a little…apart.
Even though we’ve been together for that long, he still hasn’t met my parents. They constantly complain to me that he doesn’t do anything for me and whine about how he should be more supportive and I can understand where they’re coming from. I told him most of my home issues /arguments are about him. Still, he didn’t care. So on Monday, I finally gave up, and let him know either he come meet them or not call until he was ready. I would’ve thought he had made up his mind by now, but I guess not. I mean the only reason I decided to go through with the pregnancy was because he always said he would be supportive. It’s been 6 months now and yet he still hasn’t been to one of my doc visits or helped me set up the crib and paint my room.
Anyone out there with the same problem or advice?
Help, I’m a 14-year-old girl who hasn’t even started high school and doesn’t even have a life that’s in order and I’m pregnant.
I used to be a party girl. I used to be a girl who didn’t care for consequences but now I have to care. A friend told me to do an abortion, but I can’t live with the thought of me killing my baby or even losing it. My ex-boyfriend or my baby daddy said to do an abortion. He doesn’t want anything to do with the baby and it’s a good thing too because he’s the worst and I don’t want my baby around anybody who likes the daddy. Well, now that I’m going to be a mommy. I have to start doing mommy things and I have no clue what to do. I was one of those girls who thought “it would never happen to me” and never thought bout it. I need help.
How do I raise a child when I’m only a child myself?
So I had an abortion, 14th of April, I was just under 18 weeks at the time.
It was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and I didn’t get a lot of support from my friends. I didn’t want to tell my boyfriend as I wouldn’t want to lose him over it. Sometimes it hurts so bad I cry, I wish I could hold my baby just once. I’m trying to stay strong and sort my life out so I can raise a baby properly, I know it wasn’t the right time to have my baby right now, but it still hurts sometimes. My baby would have been born this month.
It would be nice to talk to people who have gone through the same as me 🙂
Two weeks ago a friend asked me, ” Is love supposed to hurt?” I didn’t know whether or not to say yes, or no.
Because when you’re in love, different things hurt, make you cry, and make you think negatively. But, after a couple of days of thinking, I came to find out that love doesn’t really hurt. The reason a person will think love hurts is because of the things that they do that have to deal with love and they assume it is the cause of their hurt and tears. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you back will hurt you and have you thinking that by you being in love with this person, love is the reason you’re hurting, but it’s not. You are the reason, on the other hand, because you let you’re self fall too hard for someone who you have never spoken a word to or made eye contact with. If you are already in love and are still hurting, and blaming love, it is because of the mistakes, broken promises, and all the lies that your relationship has been built upon.
So, whether or not you’re in love, don’t blame love for all your tears and sorrow. Blame yourself.
