So I am 15 years old today, but in a few days, I’ll be 16!
I am 4.5 months pregnant. I found out when I was 7 weeks along. Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 9 months! He is 19 and has a 2.5-year-old son. He has a lot of issues with his baby momma and his family. For him, I was his resting place, the only peace he had in his life. I wasn’t planning on getting pregnant. I didn’t want to make things any harder for him! I wanted to help him out with his son and his life. For the first 4 months of our relationship, I was on birth control. Then my insurance got taken off so I had to stop birth control. For a month, we were using the “pulling out” method and it worked for a whole month. Then we had an issue with me thinking he was cheating and we broke up for a month. With Me not knowing that soon I was going to find out I was pregnant.
A month later, I was a week late which was very rare to me. Never in my mind did it cross that I was pregnant. I was learning how to be on my own without him, actually getting over him when I took that CVS pregnancy test and it said positive! I can’t put into words how I felt. I didn’t know if I was going to cry or to laugh or to scream. I was just left without emotions whatsoever. I called him right away. I remember hearing his voice felt like peace, but soon I remembered what I had to tell him. When he found out, he came asap and took me to get another pregnancy test at a clinic, and there, it came positive too. We followed up for abortions. During the next week, I kept calling offices and offices and so expensive 350- 450- 600! Money neither him or me had. After 3 weeks, I started getting desperate! Worried, sad, knowing it was wrong what I was planning to do, I called some church friends and I made my decision to have my baby! After that, my boyfriend left me! I felt even worse. After a month he came back. He said he was gonna be there. Things started to change. We told my parents and me and him got better.
Today, I am 4.5 months pregnant. Me and him have a fair relationship. My parents are really hurt, but accept it. I am scared, but excited. I love my boyfriend with all my heart! He has changed for good. But I am scared of what the future holds.
Hi everyone, I’m 16 and currently in high school.
I’ve been with my amazing boyfriend for nearly 2 months now. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He makes me happy, makes me laugh. I smile every time I see him because he is just that amazing. 🙂 I can seriously say that I have never been so happy or in love in my life, and I don’t think I can be anymore in love. Just after New Year’s, we had unprotected sex, and have since. I’m on the pill, but I just started taking it so I don’t think it was protecting me. I’m not scared that I could be pregnant. My period is late. I feel sick, can’t stop eating, get tired a lot of the time, and have the most random mood swings. The more I think about the possibility that I could be pregnant, it scares me, but now I’m starting to feel happy. I don’t know for certain if I am or am not pregnant, and I don’t really want to because I’m scared of what my family will say and do… You see I come from this really respected family. Everyone knows us and we are looked up upon, but having an ‘underage pregnant teen’ in the family would be disgraceful to them. I don’t know what to do. Secretly, I hope that I am pregnant, but my family wouldn’t agree, and I have no idea what my boyfriend would say. I’ve not told him that I could be pregnant. I’m too scared to just now…
Basically, my head is screwed up at the thought of it all. I just need some support, someone to hug me and tell me it will all be OK, but I don’t know if it will…
I have been with my boyfriend for three months just about and we are completely happy together.
I recently missed my period a week ago and have been getting ill in the mornings and during the day, having to use the bathroom often, and getting cravings. We were nervous at first and now we’re just excited for the results in two weeks…. But how do I tell my parents if I am? My parents are separated. My mom is a paranoid freak who likes to control everything so I’m worried she will blow it way out of proportion. My dad, on the other hand, isn’t but he is totally against teens getting knocked up… So it would be bad if it were his daughter… Will he deny me as his kid? When should I tell them?
I’m confused and scared about it. Advice please?
Every day and every night,
When you feel the need
To hold me tight,
Just blow a kiss into the sky
For I will be that close by,
In the heavens throughout the day,
I watch over you and hear you pray,
I see you smile I shed a tear,
For you know that I’m still near,
I’m the angel of your eye,
Your angel in the sky.
When mummy is a bit older, she is going to have your T put under daddy’s name. Mummy and Daddy miss you so much, Taylor. We can’t believe you’ve gone. It still hasn’t sunk in yet that you are with the angels, sleeping tight and when you’re a bit older, you’re going to be a pain in the halo just like daddy. You’re mummy and daddy’s little guardian angel and we are glad we have you to look over us. We love you forever and that love will never part. Night Night , Sleep Tight, Sweet Dreams, God Bless and we’ll see in a few years when you come back in your little brother or sister’s spirit.
Love you, Taylor-Almeida Fernandes.
Lots of love, hugs, and kisses from mummy and daddy ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ xxxx
Sitting here, doing nothing………Again. Wondering what I would be doing right now if I had my Elizabeth with me.
See, I never knew if I was having a boy or a girl. But I would dream every night that it was a girl. So I named her Elizabeth. I wish I knew what she’d look like, what she’d be like, if she would be like me or her dad. But wishes don’t come true sadly :(. If they did, she would have come back to me a long time ago. I can’t relate to many girls because they still have the dad of their baby, I don’t. He left a month later. But there is something that I can tell most girls. And that is the pain doesn’t always go away. It stays, and you’ll never forget your baby. I believe that when I have kids, then God will give her back to me because this time, I can take care of her. I can tell girls that their love for their babies does not die, it just grows more.
And that love for my baby is what keeps me going. because I know that one day, I will see her again.
Okay, so I started taking anti-depressants a couple of weeks before I found out I was pregnant. I stopped taking them but I wasn’t sure if I should keep taking them while I’m pregnant? Does anybody know the answer to this? Is it safe or not?
My meds were working. So I’m now worried that since I stopped taking them, my depression is gonna come back full-force.
But I also don’t wanna harm my baby.
What do I do??
Pleasee help!
