I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and thought that abortion was the only option… until I found this site. Now I don’t know what I should do. I’ve always been against abortion, but I guess it’s different when you’re actually put in the situation. I have a totally supportive boyfriend who said will stand by me all the way no matter what decision I make but I’ve only been with the guy for 3 months. We’re in a difficult situation as my boyfriend is Muslim and if his family found out, they would blow a fuse.
Now, I need to make a decision about what I want to do, and I need to do it quick. I have my first consultation at the hospital on Friday. Since finding this site and reading some of the stories, it has become clear that there’s an awful lot of consequences that come with an abortion, and I don’t think I’m goin to be able to handle them emotionally. I haven’t told my family that I am pregnant; only my boyfriend and a close friend know about it.
I now know that I’m going the wrong way about this and need tell the people closest to me maybe it won’t seem as hard if I know that I have the support of my family.
I am so happy now that I can actually make a family with my boyfriend! I am 19 years old and my bf is 30. I love him so much.
We have now started our family and things are finally going right. I just now need to get a job! I am happy but still nervous inside, but I know that everything is going to be alright…
p.s.- I am new 2 this site.
Sorry to everyone who read my blog.
It might have come off as bad, but I’m not necessarily going to have an abortion but I’m just scared coz we’ve only been together for a month and its not that he’s too young, just don’t think he is ready coz he is still at uni and I guess I just feel bad about telling him. But I’m going to go and talk to my GP. I don’t want to “murder” my unborn baby but I’m also worried if I say I’m pregnant, he might run a mile.
I don’t know what to do
Well as you can see, I’m 14 years old… and 7 months pregnant… I feel so young. Everyone else on here is 15 years old and up… but I’m not ashamed! I’m soooo happy!
I already know that I’m having a baby girl. Her name is gonna be Angel Marie… My boyfriend is very excited, scared but excited. 🙂 He plans to be there for me and the baby, no matter what! If we don’t make it, he still wants to be there for his little girl. 🙂
Me and my boyfriend both grew up without a dad. He doesn’t want that to happen to his little girl… Only thing he is afraid of is how we are gonna take care of her financially. But I keep telling him that’s what our moms are here for, well, till we get out of high school… But even then, they won’t let us go without!
Our moms are a little upset that we are so young, but they believe in us and that’s all that matters. 🙂 They even believe that me and my boyfriend will make it through this together until the very end 🙂 and that’s all I ask, believe in me!
But I will admit, I am a little scared about being a good mom. So if anyone has any advice, I’d appreciate it. 🙂 But everyone tells me I am really mature for my age and that I’ll be a great mom… My mom tells me I am handling all this very well and I have a good head on my shoulders, and good family/friends at my side. 🙂 But I’m still kinda scared, and I don’t want them to see that…
That’s why I’m so grateful I found this website!! I hope to get some advice from you guys. All of your stories have really inspired me!!
Hi, I’m a first-time mom so I’m extremely scared. I found out I was pregnant when I was only 17. Now I am 18 years old and I am 4 months pregnant.
I haven’t told my parents nor my boyfriend yet. Like I said, I kinda freaked out about the whole thing. I don’t know how my boyfriend will take it. He already acts weird enough now. He has very bad mood swings. It’s crazy, but somehow, my unborn baby makes me forget about everything but her. She’s the only thing I can think of most of the time. My whole story started a while back. I had been through so much drama where I was living that I decided to make a change in my life and moved to Atlanta to attend school. I then met who I thought was the man of my dreams. . . I guess I was wrong again about men. (Not all but most). But he was just as cruel and mean as the rest I dealt with in my past, just in a more subtle way.
That was all yesterday, but today is a new day and I am now a mother to be, single and free as an bird. I am sad that I will have to go through parenthood all by myself but I know me and my unborn child will be just fine because I have faith that I can do anything that I put just my mind to, but I am not only putting my mind to it but my heart so I am sure we’ll make it.
So to everyone who reads this blog, pray for me and my unborn child and thank you in advance. . .
I had my little boy on the 23rd of November at 8:51 am and he weighed 7lbs 15oz.
He has dark brown hair and blue eyes. He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me and I love him with all of my heart. Kai James xxxxxxxxxx
