I just don’t know what to do….. I just turned 16 about a month ago…
Well anyway, last year, I got pregnant and my mother made me have an abortion… Well, I don’t know what happened but I am pregnant again and I just don’t know what my parents are going to say… I have so much going for me and a baby will only make things go worse… and I know my parents will be vary angry….I might even get put out the house….
I just need to know. Am I going to be able to make it in life with a baby??
Wow!! I can’t believe it, I’m already 8 months pregnant… 8 weeks to go! I’m starting to get really scared though…
Am I really ready for this?? I’m only 14 and I’m gonna be a mom. My friend came up to me the other day and asked me if I was really ready for this and if I have really sat there and thought about it.. I told him yea, I’m sure I’m ready… But truthfully, I am really nervous…
Don’t get me wrong. I’m sooooo excited. I guess I just have a bit of worry… I could really use some advice… So if you have any, it would be WELL appreciated!!
So I haven’t been on in a long time. Life has been crazy since everyone found out.
So my mom ended up telling my dad for me. He said he didn’t wanna talk to me for awhile. Then him and his wife took me and my boyfriend out to dinner and talked to us about it. They want us to put the baby up for adoption, but that just doesn’t feel right to me. It makes me mad that they would be fine not knowing their grandchild. Oh ya, and I am gonna keep my baby. But anyways, they keep trying to push adoption on me and I keep telling them I’ll think about it, but I haven’t told them what I’m going to do. But anyways, I went in for my first appointment a few weeks ago and my mom and my boyfriend finally got the hear the heartbeat and it was so awesome. But I hated my doctor cuz like I had so many questions but she didn’t have enough time to answer them so that really made me mad and I went home, cried in my jammies, and ate ice cream.
My next appointment and ultrasound to find out what it is was supposed to be on Valentines Day which would be soooo freakin cute but my stupid doctor is taking that day off so that made me all hormonal and crazy again but my mom (who is my hero) called and got me a new doctor. It’s a guy which makes me feel weird but that’s ok cuz everyone thinks he is very nice and funny and personal so he will answer any questions no matter how busy he is. So I guess that’s good. Buuuut me and my boyfriend are gonna get married on April 5th. So I’m excited about that. Oh and his dad is a complete jerk because he wants a DNA test for the baby when its born and he doesn’t want us to get married or live together but to bad for him. He’s a jerk and he keeps calling us white trash and disgusting but I don’t really care what he says.
But anyways that’s pretty much what’s goin on now….I’ll try to update soon…peace and love
This is an update from my last forum post…
I don’t know what to do anymore. I want to do the right thing. I want my baby to be happy, but I want to be happy too… See, all my life, I’ve been living, trying make everyone else happy (maybe that’s why I’m anorexic)… Working so hard to make everything easy for everyone else, I’m really really sensitive, and I worry a lot from other people’s feelings… So this thing with my boyfriend… I’ve been working so hard to make him happy, that I’m forgetting all about my happiness…. And even though he’s been a jerk, we’ve been through a lot of things together and he’s a great dad, that sometimes I’m really scared to lose him, but there’s other times when I don’t know if I still love him… Sometimes, I wish he had dumped me when I told him I was pregnant…
He may come today to my house, and I don’t know what would happen. I would have a serious chat with him. I will ask him for the last time if he still loves me… If he says no… Well, I’ll try to figure out how to continue my life having to see his face everytime he wants to see our baby while my heart brokens in a thousand pieces…
If he says yes, I’m going to tell him that if its true, that if he really loves me and respects me,,, He’ll wait until we get married to have sex, well actually, to make love, (for me its not the same thing) and I’ll tell him that if wants this relationship to work out that he has to respect me. He’s has to stop all that crap he’s been telling me…
We’ll see how all this ends. I’ll keep all of you updated. Any advice would be gladly accepted.
Girls, this situation is driving me crazy! So I have to talk before I explode.
I have a beautiful 10-month-old daughter. I have to admit it hasn’t been easy. I suffer from depression and take pills for that. Besides that, I live with my mother. We argue every other day cause sometimes I can’t take care of my baby like it has to be. I lose my calm. I am not with my baby’s father, he doesn’t even ask for her, so ignorant…. So I’m alone with her and my mom.
So like 10 years ago, I met this guy. I’ve been in love or something like that with him all this time. All of the sudden, he appears again in my life. So I started having sex with him without protection. One month later, I was pregnant again… He said he wasn’t ready for that and for me really, it was so difficult. I’m without a job and my mom will kill me. I was confused, but my baby was still a baby, only 10 months old. So we decided to not continue with my pregnancy. That was a horrible decision for me to make and right now, I still feel so bad about it. So, he is like my baby’s father, older but irresponsible. He likes to smoke pot and lives with his grandparents.
3 weeks after that, we had sex again with protection. One month has passed and I have no signs of my period. I’m not going out anymore with my so called platonic love, but I told him my period hasn’t come AGAIN. I think I’m pregnant AGAIN! And this time if God is sending me this, I’ll have to deal with it, with him or without him…
What worries me the most is my mom…I’m so worried!
OK, I do everything I’m supposed to. I go to school, I have a job, and I raise my 5-month-old son all by myself. My baby’s daddy doesn’t have anything to do with him. How about then yesterday, he decided he was going to go and get married to a girl he’s been engaged to for 4 days!!!!!!
She was dating his cousin on Thursday and on Friday, she was engaged to my baby’s daddy… How messed up is that? Anyway, he’s 18 and she’s 22. She has a 5-year-old daughter that he’s about to have parental custody signed over to him by her real father, and he’s going to “support” them with the money he makes off the job he DOESN’T have!!! Now how do you just not even acknowledge that you have a child that is your blood and take care of someone else’s child? I mean, come on!! He didn’t finish school, he doesn’t have a job, and he’s just recently decided that he was going to start doing pills? Hello, what’s wrong with you? How about this, you guys….. He even got her initials tattooed on him???????? And I’ve tried to be nice and still let his mom have something to do with my son, but how about I found out last night that she let them take MY SON with them the other night, and she just straight up lied to my face! And not to mention he lost his licenses recently also….. I mean what do I do about this? I feel like I’m being looked at as a bad parent because of the choices he is making.
What do you do? I’m so fed up with it…. It’s absolutely ridiculous. Anyways, I really needed to get that out. If anyone has any advice, please PLEASE don’t hesitate.
