I’ve been thinking that I really want a baby. My own child.
I know a lot of people don’t think this is a good idea. I know that it’s a lot of hard work. I know all the bad stories. But I know I can do this. Please tell me how I can fulfill my dream of becoming a mommy. Also, I’m only 14 years old. I know that’s not the normal age for a Mom to be. But please understand, I want this. I know I can do this.
Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much!
I was 21 when I was supposed to have my baby. But I didn’t. I made the wrong choice and had an abortion.
I didn’t know how to speak up. I let other people convince me that that was the right choice, even though my heart was telling me it was wrong. It has been a year since my abortion and not one day goes by that I don’t think about it. Sometimes, I can not even get out of bed in the morning because I just lay there and think about what I did. I feel so empty inside and I feel like a terrible person because of what I did. (Hopefully, my story can help anyone out there trying to make a decision).
MY STORY: I got pregnant in Feb, my due date was October 31. I remember telling my boyfriend that I was pregnant, just crying in his arms. I was scared, but then he told me we could get through everything. I thought to myself for the next couple of days. I am going to start eating better, and I even went out and bought a book that takes you step by step through your pregnancy. Then a day came that my boyfriend and I were really confused on what to do. He thought about the decision of an abortion, and I thought to myself NO WAY. But the next thing I can remember is just going to go see the clinic to see what I thought. I wasn’t going to have the abortion. Then all I can remember is being so comfortable in there and I was looking at all these girls about 50 of them, all in a blue suites that the clinic puts you in. The next thing I hear is my name being called to be put in a private room and I am laying on a cold table with a suction tube lying next to me. Then I go to sleep. Waking up half an hour later. Feeling so sad that words can’t describe.
I would take back what I did in a heart beat. My depression was so bad after that I could not leave my apartment. If I saw a baby or pregnant women, I couldn’t help but cry. I have been seeking help and getting better but like I say there is not one day that goes by that I don’t think about that WRONG decision I made that day.
If anyone out there is thinking about an abortion, hopefully my story will help you in your decision making.
I’m now 9 weeks and 5 days pregnant and I sometimes get these low painful cramps on my lower abdomen…
Like, they really really hurt. They only last like 12 seconds. I read online and it said it is caused by my cervix stretching out for the baby….I know it’s dumb but I will prob get worse cramps when I have the baby lol.
Well gurlys, comment back on anything you guys experience during pregnancy…. I can’t wait to feel the baby :O)
OK I’m kinda new and I don’t know if this is gonna work but you’ll never guess what.
I’ve done a HPT yesterday and it came back positive. I’m booking an appointment at the docs tomorrow to have a test done there… I’m feeling kinda excited and I want to keep it if I am… I’m waiting to have a chat with my boyfriend tonight… I hope he decides to support me. He hasn’t decided that in the past! But anyway, just thought I’d let everyone know my good news… I wasn’t planning the baby but now I’ve been blessed with this chance, I should be grateful and happy…
Only problem left is my mum… I don’t know how to tell her. She’s gunna be really disappointed! If anyone could give me tips on how they told their parents, I’d be grateful.. Thanks.
xx
I’m 19 years old. I’m done with high school and I’m pregnant for the second time.
I had an abortion with my first pregnancy and it was such a horrible experience to go through… When I found out I was pregnant again, I decided to keep the baby… I am now 9 weeks and 4 days and I can’t wait till my belly starts growin’ and to feel the baby move :O)
I hope it’s a gurl but either way, I’ll love my baby the same.
I’m 14 years old and yes, I have a boyfriend and he’s 16 years old.
What I’m confused about is I don’t know for sure if I’m pregnant, buhh I’ve been having symptoms of what probably could be that including no period for almost 2 months now! =/ My boyfriend and I have talked about this and he wants me to have his baby. I told him I want to wait at least till I’m done with school buhh one thing led to another, and now I’m stuck… The other thing is that he has a daughter already and I’m just thinking how is that gonna work if I turn out pregnant and then he has a 1 and a half month old daughter and then another one on the way. How is he supposed to take care of both? Even though he’s with me and NOT his baby’s mom, I still don’t want to be responsible for him not taking care of another child.
So if anyone has any suggestions or advice, PLLLLEEEEASE let me know!! Thanks
