Hi everyone. I am 14 and 2 months pregnant.
A few months ago, I was raped by my 16 year old boyfriend. I was so mad and confused after that. I didn’t know how my parents would take it when I told them so I did it one parent at a time. I told my mom she wasn’t happy at first, but then she came around. When I had my mom tell my dad, he took it better than my mom. When I had told the father (I don’t talk to him anymore) that I was pregnant, he just stood there, looking at me and then he said are you sure it’s mine. I said of course, it’s yours. I don’t sleep around and most importantly, I don’t go around raping people. Then walked away. I think he told his friends because they just look at me in a funny way and just whispered.
Now, I can finally get on with my life. and so can my baby.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 wonderful months, it seems like a lot longer because we spent so much time together.
Well, I turned 18 on February 16 and then two days later, he left for boot camp in the navy. Before he left, we had been trying to get pregnant because I had an abortion at the beginning of our relationship, and he knew how hard it was for me and was there and saw the baby that was taken out of me. So a month or so after that, we decided to try and have a baby of our own. Well as soon as he left, I found out I was pregnant and was really excited until I had to tell his dad. When I went to tell his dad about it, he said I should abort because his son has dreams and with a baby, he won’t be able to carry out those dreams and also his mother has said from the beginning that i would “trap” him and get pregnant but we both wanted this. I really think his parents try and live through him because they are kind of failures themselves.
I just don’t know what to do. I love their son and want them to support me through this. My family does his doesn’t. They say I’m too young. So if there is anyone with a similar experience, I am desperate for some advice. Thank you for reading
Hey, I just found out 2 days ago that I was pregnant …….
This is not the first time that I’ve been pregnant, but the third. The first 2 times I had a miscarriage. Yeah, I’m kinda scared and even though the baby’s father wants to marry me, I still feel kinda alone…….and slightly depressed. I just can’t get the idea out of my head of my family talking mess about me and lookin’ at me like a failure ……….
My baby’s father is always here for me but I still feel alone and in the dark completely.
So, I found out I was pregnant. The last thing that I expected at this point in my life.
I haven’t been married a year, and boom baby; it’s baby time. I don’t know what I am going to do. I have been researching abortions, adoptions, and thinking about keeping it. But, I am afraid of how my life will change. Will I be able to go out and do all of the things that other people my age go out and do? Will I ever be able to stay the night at my sister’s house again? What am I supposed to expect? Part of me wants to get rid of it, and the other part of me is wondering why I am considering killing it.
I just don’t know what to do, and I don’t have a lot of time to figure it out. I have read about how people have regretted abortions, but will I? Will I regret it? How will I know if I will regret it until it is too late? I have been reading about how big the baby is, and seeing what parts of its body has already formed and what will be forming in the next couple of weeks, and it’s all so scary.
I just wish I knew what to do…
Let’s see how, do I explain myself…
I was brought into the world March 15. I guess that would make me 19 in a few days. I’ve always had great birthday presents. I suppose this year is going to be the most life-changing. I just found out that I am pregnant about 3 days ago. At first, I found myself upset and alone, knowing that my boyfriend of 3 years wouldn’t be happy. These first 3 days have been trying; the options of abortion and keeping the baby constantly flipping through my mind like a drunken daze. The first morning, I actually ended up pinching myself and asking my boyfriend if last night was real or a dream. I guess I always believed this would never happen to me. Being a Christian, I was raised not to believe in abortion, although I will not say it hasn’t crossed my mind. To my father’s family, pregnancy out of wedlock is a sin, that even my unwed cousins who have children from my mother’s side are talked about with a personification of disgust.
I lost my mother who was 7 months pregnant when I was 15, and for the first time since her death I’ve been dreaming about her and my unborn sister Jocelynn. I believe that God is telling me something. That its time to change my life and start new, that maybe this will end as my blessing.
I just found last night, after speaking with my pastor, that I will be keeping the baby, that despite what others may say and the wrath that I will receive from my fathers family will all be worth it in the end. I am scared, but excited. I am alone but strong. I know that I can make it, and maybe one day, I can go back to school to start my nursing program.
I am 16. It’s really hard for me to accept this.
I feel confused. It’s weird because at times, I feel like maybe I could get through this but then again, I won’t. I am 14 weeks pregnant. My belly doesn’t show at all. I’m a junior and I don’t wanna drop out. I realized I can make it trough after reading many of the provided stories, but still am scared. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months now and he is very supportive and opposed to an abortion since we both found out I was pregnant. My parents were never in favor of our relationship but learned how to deal with it. I am the older sister to a 10-year-old sister and an 8-year-old brother.
These past weeks, I realized that having the baby wasn’t my biggest fear, but losing my parents and having them kick me out the house and not talking to me again as a result, is. My boyfriend told his parents and they are very supportive with evrything. I told my little sister and she is excited and has kept my secret safe so far. My boyfriend wants me to tell my parents, the sooner the better, he says. He tells me that I don’t know what their reaction may be. I want to stay in school and I want my boyfriend to also, he is 17. I already decided on having the baby. The hard part is telling my parents, since I’m still their baby, considering I was the first born. They have great expectations from me. It feels weird being home with them and not being able to tell them how I’m feeling. They always talked to me and warned me on the bad decision making I have and how if I didn’t change my ways, it was going to affect the outcome of my future. I know I can succeed. I try to convince myself that this is the baby my mother can’t have right now since my father is crazy about having another baby.
I need advice on how to tell them, please anybody.
I’ve been dying to talk to someone who has gone or is going through this situation.
Please any advice would be appreciated.
Thank you for reading.
