I want to thank all of you, as you are each special in your own way, and so brave.
We initially wanted to adopt, (and still do) as we knew we may be able to help a woman give her baby a loving home. We have waited for what seems like years, but it’s not even been a year yet. With that said, we have decided to try with a surrogate. I am excited, but at the same time, I wanted to adopt since it may keep a woman from going through the hell of an abortion, and the baby would have a very loving life.
I have read many posts and blogs, and I have learned so much. No matter what your story is, or the future you are facing, I wish each of you the very, very best. I can’t wait to hear the melody of my own child crying for me to pick him or her up to feed, change, etc. Adoption is a very beautiful thing when it works, but the wait and not-knowing when it will happen, is so very hard.
To any of you that are giving the gift of life and love that a child will bring to an adoptive couple, you should know there is a very special place for you in the heavens. You will never know what that will mean to someone that can’t have children. Many blessings to you all.
JUST KEEP HOLDIN ON
I CAN TELL YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT I AM SAYIN’ TO YOU
AND YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU’RE GOIN THROUGH.
WHY AM I SO FAR AWAY?
WHY DID I RUN AND LEAVE YOU THIS WAY?
THINGS JUST KEPT GOIN WRONG
>AND THE PAIN KEPT GOIN ON
I COULD NOT STAND TO SEE YOU THAT WAY
BUT I JUST WANTED TO SAY
THAT THE DISTANCE BETWEEN US
AIN’T NOTHIN AT ALL.
WE LOVE EACHOTHER
AND OUR LOVE IS STRONG.
WE’LL BE TOGETHER AGAIN
SOMEDAY.
JUST KEEP HOLDIN ON.
I AM SORRY I LEFT YOU
THERE ALL ALONE.
BUT I WILL SE YOU VERY SOON
WHEN I GET HOME.
IT HAS BEEN SO LONG SINCE I’VE HELD YOU
TIGHT IN MY ARMS.
I KNOW I DID WRONG
BUT I MEANT YOU NO HARM.
I HOPE YOU’LL FORGIVE ME
MABYE SOMEDAY.
BABY, I JUST WANTED TO SAY
THAT THE DISTANCE BETWEEN US
AIN’T NOTHIN AT ALL.
WE LOVE EACHOTHER
AND OUT LOVE IS STRONG.
WE’LL BE TOGETHER AGAIN
SOMEDAY.
JUST KEEP HOLDIN ON.
SO PLEASE BABY,
JUST KEEP HOLDIN ON.
Dear Baby Bear,
I know you cannot understand the words I am writing or why I am so far away. I can only hope that someday you will. I have been trying so hard to get better. Then we can be together again. I remember the day you were born and holding you. It was like I was holding my own little piece of heaven in my arms. You are my hero and my true miracle. I will never forget your first smile, your first words, or first steps. You have always been my little angel and you have given me the power to feel true love, the kind that will never die. I will never forget how scared I was when you got so sick and I almost lost you to God. I promised you I would take care of you, but I failed.
Not long after, you were diagnosed with yet another disease. We stayed so strong. I did everything I could to do what I was supposed to. You were chosen, my dear sweet angel. It is said that what hurts us makes us stronger. You are destined to be great and do great things. You have already begun to do so, with your smile, you have completely changed my world. You have taken about my tears just by being you. Your family loves you so much, keep being strong and fighting for us. Pull out all of the stops and never give up. Show the world who you are inside and who you can be. I miss you so much. There is a void in my heart and in my life, without you. We will together again, I hope very soon.
Until then, remember that I love you more than anything else and I always will.
Okay well, I’m 15 and I think I am pregnant, with a boy to be specific. I don’t know but it’s just a feeling that I have.
Anyways, back to my point, my boyfriend thinks that I should get rid of it due to timing or so he says but I want to keep the baby if I am. I, on the other hand, think abortion is wrong. I think it’s just as bad as murdering a born child. I also don’t want to give him up for adoption because I could not handle giving my baby to another family. I know I can give him what he needs, maybe not the perfect life, but we can live comfortably.
I don’t know what to do, somebody help me.
It’s been a while since I last wrote and my life has gotten more complicated.
My baby is doing good but I don’t know what to do about his dad. I have been told that he’s going to have another baby and I’m concern about how that might affect us. I need some advice because he denies everything.
I don’t know what to think anymore!
I was pregnant and had an abortion 3 weeks ago.
My boyfriend told me to have one. He thought it would be the best thing to do. I wanted to keep it but he said no. He promised we’d be together and he wouldn’t leave me. I know he loves me because he did a lot for me. but now, he’s leaving me. I’m so upset and mad and I can’t even begin to describe my feelings because I got rid of my baby for him. And he is leaving me.
What do I do? Someone please help. I can’t take it no more.
