Well, I’m 15, turning 16 in December. I just found out I’m pregnant on Monday.
When I told my boyfriend, he was soooo happy and he told everyone. He started picking out names and everything. Then today, I went to see him at work and he told me he thinks I should get an abortion. He said that I wasn’t ready. When I first found out I was pregnant, I was so scared and I didn’t know what to do. I was thinking about abortion, but now that I want to keep it, he wants me to give it up. And everytime I think about killing my innocent baby, I start crying and I get more confused.
I just really need help someone to talk to or someone who knows what I’m going through that’s around my age. Please
I hope all you girls read my story, know that you’re are not alone.
I’m 17 years old but 6 months ago, when I was 16, I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I had an abortion when I was 2 months & 1/2. & my two ultrasound pictures & the sound of my baby’s heartbeat in my head other than the regret are all I have left. I hit depression & had many suicidal thoughts. I felt like I was no longer women enough to have children. I see girls my age & younger having their kids & it makes me feel very bad inside, doesn’t make me feel like a woman no more. What kind of mother chooses their life over their children? That’s the question I keep asking myself constantly. I have to go around with my head up high simply because I can’t let NO ONE see me hit the ground.
See this is my story… I moved to a new state, leaving my boyfriend behind but we promised each other to stay together regardless of the distance & so we did. When I came here, I found myself interested in this guy many girls liked. Point is we only had sex once ! & I learned the hard way, that’s all it takes. Sure enough, I became pregnant. I took two pregnancy tests & both positive.! The day after we had sex, I went to Planned Parenthood to get the ”Plan B Pill” but obviously, it didn’t save me this time. I told him I was pregnant, & I never heard so many dumb excuses like the ones he told me. He told me I’m going to the army. What if I die over there? I can’t have a kid, & Imma turn gay. You can’t tell your kid his dad’s gay. He just kept telling me really childish stuff. I knew deep down inside. He didn’t know what to do because his friends would tell me. He told me to go back this summer where my boyfriend lives, have sex with him, & tell him its his baby. I refused & everytime I would tell him no, he would get very upset. He told me he didn’t want anything to do with it to get rid of it & that he hated me because I was ruining his life! He told me he would pay for the abortion, etc. There was never a day I let him see me cry!! Ever! So when we would be together, talking about it, he thought I didn’t care. He thought I took it as a joke bcuz every time he would tell me so.
OK, I really need a friend to talk to that has been through this same situation.
I am 18 years old and I have a loving boyfriend. We both are ready for a child, but it seems that my period comes on and test are negative but I feel like I am. My breasts were so sore for like 2 weeks now. They’re very itchy and my period is on but I still don’t know. I feel sick sometimes throughout the day. I haven’t started vomiting yet so I am very unsure but my boyfriend has been sick.
OK can someone Please give me some further answers…..
I had a baby at 16 and so many people looked down on me. I was lucky though. I had supportive parents, a supportive partner, and his parents. But what I didn’t do is what the media says all ‘Teenage mums’ do. Nothing.
My son is now three and I am doing my A levels in Psychology, English Literature, Sociology, Photography, and IT.
Don’t ever let anybody tell you that you have ruined your life, that you will be stuck at home and have a dead-end job!!!
There are so many opportunities out there for young parents – not just mums, young dads too- All those that looked down on me and said I was stupid & would never get anywhere in life have given me the drive to better myself. I want to go to uni, get a good job, and throw it in all the faces of those that doubted me!!!
Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you cannot do something, we all have the capability to succeed.
If you are ever feeling down or somebody has upset you, take a glance at the beautiful baby that you have and how happy they are. Kids are the best thing in the world EVER!!!
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I guess I should start by telling you a little about myself.
I am fourteen and 14 weeks ago, I was raped. It has been so hard. My parents know I am pregnant but have no idea I was raped. It was by my brother’s best friend. I am so confused. My “rents” are dying for me to get an abortion.
I just don’t know.
I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant with my 1st child after suffering 2 previous miscarriages…
I was soo scared when I 1st found out I was pregnant again as I believed it would end up the same way 2 previous pregnancies had but once I reached the 12-week mark, I was soo excited… When I went for my 12-week scan, it was amazing 2 see my baby’s heartbeat and I started 2 let myself feel close 2 my child. It seemed like ages until my 20-week scan!!! At my 20-week scan, I cried when I saw my baby properly for the 1st time. Being able 2 see what looked like a baby and not a blob was great!!! When I was 22 weeks pregnant, I decided to have a 4d scan as I wanted to know the sex of my baby… The scan itself was brilliant and I was soo pleased to find out I am having a boy… Just to be able to see his features and what he looked like was fantastic and it made me feel even closer 2 him than I did before!!!
I can’t wait for the arrival off my son who is due on 29th November.
