Hello. I’m 18, 19 in 2 months. I live in the U.K. I have just found out that I am pregnant and I have no idea what to do.
My boyfriend thinks we’re too young and I’m being understanding about it, but I don’t know if I can have an abortion. I’m scared, confused, and just basically stressed out thinking about it all. My boyfriend said if I have the baby, he will support me and be there for me, but I have hardly any money and I want to bring up a child that I can support well financially.
Can anyone help me?
Well, my DUE is TODAY on my PERIOD but WITHIN THE WHOLE DAY NO PERIOD COME.
Hopefully NO PERIOD., YES PREGNANT!
I felt afraid to know the TRUTH.
I am afraid to know because I am afraid of the word “NEGATIVE”
which probably could make me so.. DEPRESSED! wtf! Hope I AM!
PS:
I’m gonna UPDATE you guys everyday!
Please PRAY for my BLESSING! Thanks! 😉
lots of love.,
CAMS2KNOW
So, I feel relatively OK. Which is strange due to the fact I lost my baby. It was terrifying and I don’t remember most of it.
I’m back to work. Working only three shifts a week at a local restaurant. The hours are decent. The tips are great! I usually work during the day (the lunch shift), that way I can spend time with my fiancé. And I get the workers who tip great just because of my body. Yes, I did say my body. I’ve been working out non-stop. Every single morning, I go for a nice long run with my fiancé (sometimes stopping so he can take a breather). Releasing all my pent-up anger/energy/frustration out on that run. I’m almost fully back to my old body. the body I had before I got pregnant. All I have that is different is a bit bigger breasts, but I can’t change those. But, it’s strange… Everyone acts as if I’m a ticking time bomb. As if I’m going to burst at any moment. That I’ll start bawling my eyes out or that I’ll snap on someone. They are always there as if ‘OK, be ready just in case something happens and she finally breaks’. I don’t think they understand that I’m fine. And I’m not going to snap. Or start bawling my eyes out randomly. Why are they like this? How long will it last?
When will my life go back to normal-so I can plan my wedding?
So I’m now 20 weeks and 6 days pregnant and everything was going really well.
My baby has a strong heartbeat of 147 and it moves around all the time, But I’m having this uncontrollable pain. So I went to the doctor’s and he thinks I could be having premature contractions. But he couldn’t tell me for sure because my cervix was closed. Now I have to wait a couple more days to see if the pain will go away with meds and a heat pack and so far it’s not really working all that well. So if the pain is there throughout tomorrow, I have to call my doctor’s office again and hope that they can get me to an ultrasound to make sure everything is going smoothly with the baby.
A little worried about the premature contractions and just hoping it’ll get better. I love my baby<333
Angels
Once upon a time, there was a child ready to be born. So one day, she asked God:
They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?
Among the many angels, I chose one for you. She’ll be waiting for you and will take care of you.
But, tell me, here in Heaven, I don’t do anything else but sing and smile – that’s enough for me to be happy.
Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you everyday. And you will feel your angel’s love and be happy.
And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me, if I don’t know the language men talk?
Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.
And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?
Your angel will place your hands together and teach you how to pray.
I’ve heard that on earth there are bad men. Who will protect me?
Your angel will defend you – even if it means risking her life.
But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.
Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way for you to come back to me – even though I will always be next to you.
At that moment, there was much peace in heaven. But voices from earth could already be heard and the child, in a hurry, asked softly:
Oh, God, if I’m about to leave now, please tell me my angel’s name.
Your angel’s name is of no importance. You will just call your angel, “Mommy”.
It’s coming up on the one-year anniversary of when I had my abortion…
The last few weeks, I’ve been having so many flashbacks of that day, it’s killing me. I keep having visions of what it would be like to have my baby girl right now. Taking her to all of my Christmas celebrations, my family asking me if they can hold her… It’s been so hard. On New Year’s Eve, it was especially hard. One year ago that day was when I conceived my baby… Instead of enjoying the night, I spent it crying in the arms of my boyfriend. Right now, I just need so much support from people, and I feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to. My boyfriend doesn’t like talking about it because he has a really hard time expressing his feelings, which just makes me feel like I’m the only one carrying this burden when he tries to tell me that I’m not alone…
Please, I really need some help right now…
