So everything was going good, finally accepted and gained the courage to do this whole single-parent thing.
A couple of days ago, the FOB called me to see how I was doing. I was kind of relieved he called, thinking we could be civil toward one another. I was TOTALLY WRONG. So he tells me he let HIS OTHER BABY’S MAMMA KNOW I WAS EXPECTING. I was MAD because he TOLD her because I feel IT IS NONE OF HER BUSINESS and also, HE SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO ME FIRST. He said she had a right to know regardless if him and I talked about it first.
AM I WRONG FOR BEING COMPLETELY PISSED OFF? FIRST OFF, HE SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO ME FIRST. SECOND, WHY IS HE TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT ME BEING PREGNANT WHEN HE STATED HIMSELF HE DIDN’T WANT ANOTHER BABY AND BASICALLY DOESN’T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT? THEN HE TELLS ME THAT HE’LL LET ME KNOW IN THE FUTURE IF HE’S GOING TO BE THERE FOR THE BABY. HE IS CONFUSING ME BECAUSE ONE MINUTE, HE IS FREAKING OUT, ASKING ME TO GET AN ABORTION. THEN THE NEXT, HE’S GOING TO LET ME KNOW IF HE’S GOING TO BE THERE FOR MY BABY. THEN HE DECIDES TO TELL ME THAT HIM AND HIS BABY MOMMA ARE TALKING AND TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT. I’VE COME TO TERMS THAT HIM AND I WERE ONCE GOOD FRIENDS, NEVER TOGETHER AND I DON’T THINK WILL EVER BE. BUT WHY IS IT MY BUSINESS WHO HE’S WITH OR TALKING TO WHEN I COULD CARELESS. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO MAKE OF THE SITUATION. LIKE WHY CAN’T HE JUST GROW UP AND UNDERSTAND I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH HIM?
BUT AS FOR NOW, I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO. JUST TALKING TO HIM STRESSES ME OUT. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
Hello Everyone,
So my story…..
Well since I’ve moved here, I have been lucky enough to find the love of my life (soon to be married). My boyfriend and I have been together now for 10 months. We are moving out together once I graduate in June and then it’s college in September…
Although on Feb 2nd, we lost our virginity to each other :). I’m so glad I got to share that with him. Since we’ve been sexually active, I’ve found myself longing for something more. I’m happy with him and I’m very involved with school, etc… But why am I having the feeling of wanting a baby?
It’s almost like I’m craving for a child? Yes I am 17, waaaaaay tooo young, people say. And especially to purposely try to have a baby. I am NOT trying this on purpose. My boyfriend does want children, just not right now…and I don’t either, but I’m finding myself becoming confused.
We only use birth control (“the pill”) and he doesn’t pull out. So far, its been about 3 weeks and I took a test…not prego.
Which is good, right? Yes! it is… Then why did I feel so bad when only that 1 pink line showed up?
I just want to know if any other girls get this need?
I know I’m meant to be a mother. There is nothing I want more in life. But I also know its waaay too freaking early and “I have my whole life ahead of me”, which is what everyone says. lol
I know my boyfriend and I could support ourselves and the baby fine. We would manage.
It’s almost like I cant wait to get pregnant! ;p Am I just a lunatic? Or is this normal?
Hey, I am 15 years old. I found out that I am pregnant. My boyfriend is 16 years old. Now I need to abort this child.
I know I am really young. but I don’t know how will it all work out. I actually don’t want to abort this child. But I can’t even keep it. I love my boyfriend and he too loves me a lot. We don’t know how we will abort this child. I live in India. I don’t even know what the charges will be. I can’t share this with anyone else. Otherwise, I’ll be dead.
Please help.
Two days ago, I found out I was pregnant with my new boyfriend.
I was dating a boy for three years and found out he was cheating on me with my best friend for the past three months. I left him and started dating my current boyfriend. To make my ex jealous, I became sexually active with my new boyfriend. I told him today I was pregnant. When I told him, his face was immediately in a state of shock. Abortion is NEVER an option for me, but that is where we disagree. He told me that if I didn’t terminate the pregnancy that he would leave me. So as of an hour ago, I am single and expecting a baby in nine months.
My parents don’t know yet, and I’m, not sure how to tell them. I need advice? I am so lost.
When I found out I was pregnant, I was scared and the first thing that came into my head was what’s next?
My partner is over the moon, but we both were scared about what our families would say. But the first step was to try and work out how many weeks I was. My sister was the first person I told and she sat my mom down and told her for me. I’m now 13 weeks pregnant and I’m 15 years old, and the day I decided to keep my little angel was the day I felt like I meant something to everyone, I will never forget the day I decided I was keeping my baby.
This baby means the world to me and anyone that is in a position where they do not know what to do. One thing you should know is don’t let anyone else put stuff into your head, even if it’s keeping the baby or not. It’s your choice and you make the choice as long as it takes. It’s your body, you decide.
Keeping my baby was the best thing i have ever ever done in my life
15mum2be x
I was a senior in high school and dating my best friend. In December, the condom broke and I got pregnant. I decided to keep my baby. My senior year, unfortunately, was no fun at all. I was responsible for a new life. I was excited and scared, all at the same time. My baby was born on September 6, two days before her E.D.D. She was in perfect health, 8 lbs. 12 oz. I love my baby Lily.
I’m 18 now, and she is seven months old. Her dad and I are still together and doing great. I work 40-hour weeks at a daycare with my baby and go to college full-time as well. So does her dad. We are doing our best for our baby girl. Everything she has, we buy. We don’t ask for help. We can do this on our own.
I love taking my baby out and spending time with her. But I hate the looks I get. Everywhere I go, people take one look at her and then at me and just shake their heads. They don’t know my situation. I’m sure they think that I am a slacker teen who is irresponsible and relying on others for my baby.
My friends left me as soon as we graduated. Sure, there is the occasional Facebook message, but really…. I have no one except my baby and my boyfriend. I love them both so much. But it really isn’t the same as having girlfriends to hang out with. I don’t know any other people who are in a situation like mine… and I would like to make friends who are teen moms.
I just feel so alone without people to talk to about girl stuff.
