So I’m 16 years old and a Junior in High School. And I was with a guy for 5 years until I found out he cheated on me.
When we were together, I got pregnant with twins (a boy, Rylan James Hunter, and a girl, Heaven Hope Love) that I carried for 32 weeks until I woke up bleeding and went to the hospital and had to deliver them. Rylan was stillborn and Heaven wasn’t breathing, but they got her to breathe, but she died at 2 hours old. That made me and my ex very upset and we were too emotional to stay together so we broke up 6 months ago. And now I’m with a guy that I have known since I was 6 years old and everything is going good. It’s only been one month. But after me and my ex broke up, we were still having sex. And now my period is 2 months late, I’m having the same symptoms I had with my first pregnancy and I’m scared I might be pregnant.
What should I do? How do I tell my ex and my boyfriend?
Hi, I am 20 years old and have a 19-month-old child. I have just found out that I am pregnant again and I really do not know what to do with it. The baby father of both the children does not want it. He is totally against it. He says we do not need another baby. He has got one and that’s all he needs.
Please, could anybody advise me as to what I should do as I do not want to be forced into anything? Would someone please give me info as well as what would happen if I were to have an abortion?
Thank You xxx
So I wonder now what to do. How to move on, how to live my life with such a sin.
I ask God for forgiveness yet I wonder if I really am forgiven. School is so hard. I constantly find myself looking at him. I just wanna scream at him and make him hurt like he has done to me. Yet, he knows nothing. He wonders why I’m so mad. This is possibly the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I often cry and I think I honestly would have killed myself without my boyfriend’s support and love. I start seeing a counselor next week. I think. I don’t know when, but soon, I hope. I know I did the right thing, but I also know I won’t ever get to hold my little baby. I keep thinking of the way I felt in the recovery room, so empty. I wondered, is it over? Why do I feel so sick? As I asked for a spew bag, she passed me a small tablet to place under my tongue, which made it so much worse. I sat in a little ball and cried my heart out. I placed my hands on my tummy and prayed to the Lord above.
Forgive me, Lord. I have sinned.
Hi… I’m 23. I have just found out that I’m 7 weeks pregnant…
Although my initial reaction was to have an abortion…as I’m not with the father and I never considered even having children… I have always done a lot of traveling and wanted to go and travel some more so it just didn’t seem the right time to have a child in my life… But after having a consultation for an abortion and talking about it, it made the whole process seem real and I’ve decided to go ahead with this baby..
Although the father is really supportive, I mean we have been seeing each other since September on and off. We got on, but there just wasn’t that complete spark there…
So it just hasn’t worked out… He wants to be completely involved with the baby…
I think he forgets that I’m the person carrying this child. He’s talking about him, his family, and the baby, kind of talking down to me… Well, you won’t be able to be on your own with the baby at first… Just makes me believe maybe I can’t do this… My family is completely supportive…and would back me whatever…
I’m just a bit lost at the moment with what to do (again)…
x
I’m 17 years old. I have a year-old son named Logan and I’m pregnant with twins.
IDK what to do. I’m really scared, but I can’t just leave my babies with no mother. So I’m keeping them and if you want to know anything else bout me, just let me know.
I’m writing this for my own closure.
I found this site before I aborted my baby. I read a couple of things on here, but I didn’t want to read a lot. I knew what I had to do and it was to get rid of this baby in my stomach. I was in denial for so long. I didn’t want to believe I was pregnant. I always had this small feeling in my head that hell, I could never get pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, we never had protected sex. I was on birth control for a couple of months but stopped for a really dumb reason. I never had a ride to go up to Planned Parenthood to refill my BC. My last period was November 6th. When December came rolling around and I still had no period, I started to go out of control. I thought maybe the more pills I ate, the more alcohol I consumed, the less likely I would be pregnant. I was immature. I don’t know why I thought I could just kill something that was meant to be growing inside me. My boyfriend and I both knew I was pregnant. We talked about it sometimes, but it was never a major concern. Until the beginning of January. I stopped drinking on December 30th. I started to feel love for this child. I started eating healthy and stopped smoking. I was constantly researching about FAS, it was constantly crossing my mind what a beautiful baby we could have had. But I messed up. I poisoned the most precious thing ever given to me. I did not believe in God until this baby started affecting me. The first 3 months of being pregnant are the most important, and those were the months I did the most damage. I did drugs, I drank. I ate barely enough to support my own body, let alone a growing baby. I started staying in my house, hating myself more and more every day. I’ve always self-injured, but it started to spiral out of control. I would hurt myself. I wanted to keep this baby, but it wouldn’t have been healthy. I know if I had stepped up and taken responsibility for this child, my boyfriend and I would be happily planning for our baby to come into this world.
Now all I do is write notes to my little baby. I believe she was a girl, you know, motherly instinct. I pray for her night after night. I cry every day, wishing that a healthy baby was still in my belly. When I do have kids, I wish they would be half as wonderful as my little girl would have been.
