OK, so me and my boyfriend have known each other for 4 months & we just started dating on May 3rd. I’m 15 and he’s 17… I live in Florida, he lives in Texas. He’s coming down to see me next week and he’s staying here for the whole summer.
He tells me he’s deeply in love with me and he doesn’t want to be with anybody else, but me. I believe deep down inside he is telling the truth and I find myself falling in love with him more and more each day. He claims I am the love of his life and he wants to marry me.
He tells me everything I want to hear, but he also tells me sweet things that guys have never told me before. He said he’s preparing to ask me to marry him when he comes down here. I know we’re young and everything, but he says he’s ready and that once I’m 18, we’re going to get married.
We have talked about having children before and I never thought he would want one now. I really do want a child now, but I believe that’s just a phase I’m going through right now in life. I feel like if I get pregnant now, I might regret it later on in life. I really want to be successful in the future. I want to finish high school and go to college, but I don’t want me being pregnant to be the result of why I couldn’t do those things.
He tells me he will always be there and he will support me through thick and thin. He claims he is ready to be a father and he is ready to take on the responsibilities of having a child. We started to talk more seriously about having a child more and more each day. We already picked out a name “Nevaeh Cabrera”.
I feel like he is ready. But am I really ready? I love him to death, but we only have been together for almost a month and were so young. But the more, we talk about having a little baby girl, the more I feel like I’m ready. I don’t know what to do… I feel torn by this decision..
Can you give me some advice?
Love,
Help, I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 17 and don’t know what to do.
I’m scared I’m pregnant. I don’t want to go to the doctor cause I’m afraid it’s true. I have missed my period and over the last few days, I’ve had a bit of bleeding like it’s not my period. It’s real light and smells kind of funny. It’s a off-colour as well. I also sleep for about 16 hours with small gaps when I’m awake to eat and pee but then I’m asleep again and I eat so much. I also cry for absolutely no reason.
Can someone help?
I’m having a little boy and I’m so excited!!!
Not much longer and he will be here in my arms!!!!
This all happened unexpectedly and at first, I didn’t want it to happen.
But now, I couldn’t give him up for anything 🙂
I didn’t really know what to do….
Should I have to hold onto him forever even if he can’t give that assurance I’m wanting?… Omg!! He can never be mine… He can never really be mine…
8 weeks, 2 days now.
So I went to my first scan yesterday. I got to see and hear the heartbeat. 169 bpm, perfectly healthy but sitting a little low for my dates. Anyway, my boyfriend is getting used to the fact that he is going to be a daddy and we are starting to sort things out. I get another scan in 4 weeks and then get to post some pics. Yesterday was amazing, seeing my little miracle on the screen, not even 2cm long yet, and knowing that it is actually inside of me. I really can’t wait to be a mum and am going to treasure every single day. The morning sickness has calmed down for now, but the doc says it will anyway in a few weeks, so that will be a relief. It is going to be so great when the time comes that my baby starts to kick. Feeling it move around inside of me will be totally magical. Things are going to change so much for us and I just hope we are able to cope with it all. All that matters to me is my family now though and I will do anything to keep it safe and happy. I’m even trying to get into a first aid and childcare course and hoping to get my P plates before I have the baby so I won’t always be relying on my boyfriend. The doc said my baby is due around January 2nd, so with a great chance of having a New Year’s baby. I really can’t wait.
I buy my baby book in 3 days, so I can start to record events about ultrasounds and information about the baby’s progress.
I’m fifteen years old and I think I’m pregnant.
What do I do? I know there will be no father in the picture and I have no idea how I would raise a baby?
