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Dear Becky, I just don't know how to tell my parents. You see they're Christian and...

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pregtest_large How can you tell? The onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary within women. Many women experience them within days of conception, others take a few weeks before pregnancy symptoms kick in and a lucky few feel no discomfort at all.The early pregnancy symptoms listed here generally can be felt once impla... Read more...

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My Chance

Sisters
Written by Standupgirl
"So many children lose their lives every day," Jaime says. "People have asked me why I would want to tackle such a controversial subject at this time in my musical career. My answer is that we can't afford to wait. Lives need to be saved now. I'm not worried about what others think." Add Comment (0)

A Stand Up Guy

Dear Becky
Written by John
Hi My name is John from Gauteng, South Africa. I got your email address on the standupgirl.com and I thought maybe you could be the right person to talk to. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. Recently we just found out that she is 2 months pregnant... Read More Add Comment (0)

You Can Get Through It

Dear Becky
Written by Jamie
Dear Becky. I am writing to you as I hope that my story can be shared with all at SUG and hopefully will help other girls who are torn between choosing life and abortion. I was 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 years when I found out I was pregnant in December 2007. My initial reaction was shock, as I was, at the time, a college student, with 6 months left until graduation. My boyfriend’s reaction was also shock, as we had always used contraception. Read More Add Comment (0)

Finding the Right Guy is Hard

Sisters
Written by Bri
Experience is one way to learn from mistakes, but a much less painful way is to listen to the advice of someone you trust. My dad often tried to drill some dating standards into my head, but when I was in High School I didn't think he could possibly know what I was going through... Read More Add Comment (0)

I'll always miss you

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Written by beautifullyblind
I look back on that day and really think of how much of a fool I was. To think that I would just forget about it and move on with my life was just a dream. It is still and will always be there. I aborted my unborn child, and no one close to me knows. Read More Add Comment (18)

I was 18 and Confused

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Written by Jessica
I just felt I needed to share my story. I was 18 and it was the end of march or beginning of april when I found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend and I (now fiance) were very confused on what to do. Read More Add Comment (12)

You Can Love Him Now

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Written by Wendy Moore
I recently had a bout with Lyme disease. We decided to go hiking in the woods and a tick bit me. About two weeks later I came down with some really weird symptoms so I went to see the doctor. He put me on heavy doses of medication and referred me to see a specialist. When I saw the specialist he asked me if there was a possibility that I could have syphilis. Read More Add Comment (2)