i really think that you SHOULDN’T abort the child. who cares if his father won’t be there to support you! you have your family there to support you. if you do end up aborting the child, you’d just look back at this situation and regret doing it! i know it won’t be easy raising the child on your own and looking at it knowing that he/she has the blood of your ex, but it’s stil yours! just keep your head up high… all’s well that ends well!