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Replacing one baby with another, will not help your heartache. You are always going to wonder what your first child would have looked and acted like throughout years to come despite how many children you have.
My advice would be to seek some counseling before you try for another baby. You should spend some time talking with your boyfriend about whats happened and what you want for the future and be sure that another baby is what you both want because it is still a huge responsibility.
I hope everything goes well for you 🙂 x
Pregnancy sounds very unlikely in your situation. If he didn’t ejaculate or had ”pre-cum” then I can’t understand why you would be pregnant. Especially if he had a condom on! However the condom may have had a tiny hole or tear that u didnt see. Its almost impossible for you to be pregnant and it could just be a late period. But, to put your mind at rest you should do a test. 🙂
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I’m 17 and just found out i’m pregnant, i don’t have a clue what to do. Some people keep telling me if i keep it im throwing my life away. However others are saying that abortion is cruel and children are the most precious thing in life. What should i do? :S
Thanks for all the advice. I now know that I have support from both of our families however one line that is throwing me off is ”I just don’t want you to throw your life away and lose out on so much.”
I really dont know whether this is true or not because I know many mothers go on to live their life happily, have a good job and support their child at the same time. Both me and my boyfriend feel selfish for even thinking about what would happen to our lives and ”freedom”. I know how hard it is to look after children as I wanted to become a nursery nurse and I also have 2 nephews. I am very good with children but what if I just couldn’t handle my own?
My boyfriend sees this also as an opportunity to take control of our lives and step up to the mark. But is he ready to give up his life too?(Please don’t think we are heartless or selfish, we are just trying to look at every aspect of this situation)
🙁 :blush:
