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Hey Wishihadafamily17!
Im glad you chose to write us for encouragement and help! 🙂 I would try and recommend for you friend to do something else that keeps her mind busy! Having a baby without having a stable relationship is hard, maybe have her baby sit or get a job working with children? volunteer at a shelter! It seems to me she just has a need to ‘mother’ or ‘care’ for something or someone! those needs might be full-filled through these things!
As for you, I would suggest clicking the link above on the right to find a pregnancy resource center around your area! They can help you get through the emotional roller coaster of first finding out you are pregnant, and get you some classes! Dont worry, things will be ok, and being pregnant is the most beautiful thing on earth! 🙂 You’re a mommy now! There is a baby in your belly, with a heartbeat! 🙂 the PRC can also help you find places that can help you finacially, such as WIC, Food Stamps all that stuff! Plus they have a great program to help you cloth, and get diapers for baby! 🙂 If you still feel you are unable, they can also help you find a place of adoption! There is a loving family out there who would be so grateful to care for your baby! 🙂Best of luck to the both of you, and please keep us posted!
if you needed anything or have any questions we are here! <3Blessings,
Teka
Hey Allison9811,
If you havent had sex since November then you are about 7 to 8 months along. You should be feeling your baby move and your belly should be a little round! 🙂 There are plenty of places out there that can help you! GO to optionline.org and find a resource center near you! They can help you. Also, you should schedule an OBGYN appt as soon as possible so you can get treated. Start taking prenatal vitamins. Also, try and get on WIC that helps a lot too! 🙂 Let us know how things go at your appt. and if you find the resource center near you! You can do this , and will be an awesome mom! I know youre scared right now, but its ok we are here to help you and encourage you ever step of the way 🙂
Hey!
I completely understand. My parents are very strong Christians. When i got pregnant in high school i was terrified to tell them, however after i did they still offered their full support. With you being your own adult, with a career house and a 6 year old girl. I think they will be more understanding than mine. 🙂 Youre a grown woman and they know you are capable of being responsible for life! 🙂 Im sure they will help out with the baby once he/she is born 🙂 . Dont stress the little stuff now and I would stop worrying about the ‘dads’ they will either come around or not. Its their loss and your gain. You gain a beautiful life! 🙂
We are here the entire time for you 🙂
TekaHey ohwhitn3y!
First im so glad you chose SUG as a refuge in hard time, and to seek encouragement! I believe getting that abortion will crush you more than being a single parent of two! There are places that can help you with clothes, you can get of food stamps, there is WIC. Your ex sure has a ‘right’ i guess to be mad. But technically you werent together with him,so you didnt cheat on him. Honestly , if he loves you like he says he does , he should appreciate that you took him back AGAIN… If it were me I would find a caring pregnancy resource center around there. Go in there, see what your baby looks like at your stage of pregnancy. Listen to the heartbeat. You CAN make it on your own. you CAN be a successful person! If both of the men dont want to be apart of your life because of a awesome gift of a baby. Then they dont deserve you at all… 🙂 If you want to find a resource center near you visit this web site optionline.org or you can get help 24/7 by calling 1800-712-HELP 🙂 PLEASE, send in a DearBecky letter so you can keep in contact with one of our StandUpGirls! Its important for you to have positive encouragement right now, instead of negative. Take one day at a time! 🙂 You can be a StandUpGirl! 🙂
Plus, your 6 year old will be an awesome sister I bet 🙂Please let me know how things go! 🙂 I pray you keep that life you are growing and tell those guys you are worth more than that, and they cant keep playing with your heart! here is my email.
Love Teka
Hey Anicole!
Your symptoms could be your body re adjusting to birth control. Once you go off it and back on, your body has to re establish those hormones. As for the bleeding, that could be a UTI or maybe bleeding from having sex. I would consult your doctor and for the time being refrain from having sexual intercourse. And if youre for sure you are probably pregnant i would stop taking your birth control. Contact your doctor. 🙂 Please let us know how everything goes! 🙂Teka
