Roxyangel843

I completely agree with Meg. I’m 16 and have a 1 month old daughter. I lost my Virginity at 14 and got pregnant at 15. It was my boyfriends first time as well, but when we first had sex I didn’t know that. He had told me he had previous partners and somehow that made him look older and more mature then anyone else I had gone out with. If only I had known at the time of me losing my Virginity on a park bench in my neighborhood park in 40 degree weather that I could have had that amazing first time in a warm bed on my wedding night with this person that I love, and it be more satisfying to wait. And when I had my daughter, it would be a time of joy and something celebrated by EVERYONE. Not just people making the best of a less then ideal situation. Two of my friends showed up to my baby shower, TWO! Instead of my husband and I hugging and kissing eachother for that 3 minute s while waiting for a positive test. I took it alone in an Albertsons bathroom because I couldn’t buy the pregnancy test. And having to endure the pain of him demanding I abort our child, instead of being ecstatic. If only I had waited to hear his vows of love and commitment before I gave him the most precious thing you can give anybody. I’ve only had one partner, but thats one too many before I ever heard a promise that I knew I could trust from a man that loved me, and not just told me he did, but showed me. The hurt of a broken heart from giving someone everything and treating it like nothing, is so much worse then getting teased by people that will never have what you can. And that is absolutely something to envy.