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    No it isnt wrong. Perhaps the better question is why do you want this baby?Is there really something else missing in your life? If it is love that you want a baby wont provide that for you…yes the baby will love you But you shouldnt be having a baby because you want it or because you want love or someone to give it to you. You need to love yourself first. Get a good couselor and figure out what it is you really want. What you think you want at your age is alot different even in a few years, trust me I know.
    So many women are havin babies much later in life. Women can have babies well into their 40s even. By waiting you give yourself a chance to live and experience life. There is so much life to live out there and enjoy. Plus being older with and education and good job and security equals a better quality lifestyle for you and your baby.I m not saying you cant be young and be a good mom, but it will be alot harder. If I would have had a baby when I was young in my 20s itwould have ben a huge struggle, I wouldnt be where I am today in life. Now I am in a much better position to be a mom…take your time you have alot of it.

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