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Hello all….
Well it has been a while since I have posted anything, I feel now as if the subject line should read I made the right choice!!
I am now 35 weeks, Elijah Zion-Mathew will be here very soon….
What a journey it has been!!!
Lonely at times, happy and confusing moments, all praises due to his divine spirit, our father in heven, he has helped me so much along the way, he has carried me through the hurt and confusion and showed me that all I need are my childeren and his presence in my life, and in his time all things are possible.
If this thread has helped even one woman in a similar situation then I am glad, the easy road is not always the right route to take and can end up very lonely and painful at the end.
We woman do not give enough credit to our spirits, what ever situation you are in belive that there is a better day ahead.
Blessings
Pumpkin and Elijah
xoxoxoxoHello All,
24 weeks tomorrow “6 months”
Baby is officialy a boy…
I am thinking of naming him Elijah.Movement is very constant now, all by the grace of god all is well…
Keep us in you prayers….
Love
Me and Eli
xoxoxHello Sisters….
Just an update on how things are going for me and my pregnency….
I am slowly approching my third trimester, I am 19 weeks now so nearly half way:laugh:
Baby is moving around like a little speed racer hehehe, it’s so funny the movement that is, I had forgotten what it felt like after 8 years lol….
I find out weather I am having a boy or a girl next Tuesday so I am very excited about that!!!
Life is good, I try to be greatfull for each day and give thanks. I get lonely sometimes, and wish I had my baby’s father there to share this experience with, I look at other couples and get upset.
But I try to stay positive and have faith that god has a bigger plan in store for me and my children, and one day when the time is right I will meet someone who will love me and my children unconditionally…
To all the woman who are confused and in the same situation as myself or similar, keep your head up.. we must be extreamly strong woman blessed with these tests from god and he is one person that will never leave us!!!
Love Pumkin
xoxoxox;):cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
Thank you so much sisters,
I am doing well and in a better place than I was a few weeks ago.
I am approching my second trimester now, I can feel buba’s flutters, my Son is so excited he is going to be a big brother.
Everyone at work is very supportive.
Every morning and night I thank god for all the blessings in my life and know he is very near.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me through this confusing time, even by adding a thread to my discussion it felt like I wasn’t so alone and gave me the courage to STAND UP!
LOVE xoxoxox
Pumpkin and Puku (Maori for tummy)Hi Meg….
I have decided to keep my baby,
I am really scared, but abortion is not an opption for me.
My emotions are a real live rollercoaster at the moment, feeling very alone and unsupported.But I can’t waitto hold my little one in my arms!!!
Thanks for the encouraging words and support.
Love
PumpkinIm still not 100% sure yet,:(
God knows deep down inside I really want to keep my baby.I’m just looking at the big picture, I’m feeling really lonely and scared, I wish I had someone to share this experience with, feeling really tiered and sick….
I have my first antinatel appointment this Thursday, so hopefully I can have a word with her then.
I just wish all my doubts would go away, I’m still very confused!!!!
At the end of the day it is your decission, and you will have to live with the choices that you make.
I had my first child at 17, it wasn’t always easy, your lucky to have the support of baby’s father, I never had that just my mother who has since passed.
You do have a lot going for you right now, but just because you have a baby it doesn’t mean you have to put your life on hold, I still studdied and had my daughter in daycare, where she learnt some awsome learning and social skills.
No one can make the choice for you, you need to decide and then own it, I know how hard it can be, I’m sort of in a similar position.
Hope it all goes well either way…
Let me know how you get on!!Best of luck
xoxoxoxThanks Meg….
I can understand what you are saying, I only wish I could be as optimistic as you. How blessed you are to have someone who accepts you fully… congratulations sister:)
I am still scared, but everything I feel is telling me to keep my child, and I get very emotional at the thought of abortion,I am also affraid of what babys fathers familys reaction is going to be, weather they will ignore my child or play an active role. I guess all I can do is prat and leave it in gods hands. Once again thank you!
Hi There,
Like most contreception there are always risks, nothing is 100%. I had previously been on the IUD for 5 years after my son, then had it removed and replaced. When I discovered I was pregnant the doctor had said she suspected it was not inserted correctly. Its a good idea to keep getting cheaked while you are on the IUD.
Hope that helps.
