Dear Kat,
I PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE beg of you to NOT have an abortion. Even if you carry the baby and put the child in an adoption agency, that would be a much better option than completely aborting the child. I first joined this site not because I was pregnant, but to research more information on tramatic situations of abortions. The results I’ve found we’re completely devastating. (Actually, I’m dreading presenting this essay tomorrow in class because I’m afraid I will break down…again.) Many people frown upon the thought of an adoption agency, but if you are not ready to become a mother, please just don’t give up on this child. I know I have no place to tell you your actions, but the physical and mental pain with an abortion is horrifying.
Also, it sounds as if the parents are only using this child to get back at you. I am extemely sorry. Please, please, please, make a strong decision and make sure you know all the details and have researched the topic. I am pleased that you keep with your religious faith. Best of luck on your choice and be strong no matter what.
Best of wishes,
oh*so*true