Mom37

Dear “need advice” I don’t want this to sound cold, but chances are the daddy won’t be around anyway, not because he doesn’t love you, but because people change, they grow in different directions, this time you had together (and may still have) needs to be cherished and accepted. The point now is you both have a new life that is being brought into this world and whether you stay together or not your duty to that child is to give them as much love and support as you possibly can. Remember you are designing this little one into who and what they may become. So give it all you got..LOL!!! I had my son 37 years ago, his father got involved in drugs & has been mentally messed up for many years, even then I knew that the choices he made were not going to effect our lives. As much as I loved him way back then, I did move on (as he did, in his choices) and have had a wonderful life. So, please know that life is a journey and you have been given this little companion to travel with, don’t ever take that for granted….Bless you and stay strong