abortion was THE WORST experience of my life sweetie.. the whole process took over 7hours. then when they ask you to sit on the table usually make you listen to the heartbeat right before the procedure.. i cried before during and after. still cry and wake up in night sweats with horrible anxiety. but if your mind is alrealy set, just make sure you have ALOT of support.. i will be here for you either way. tell me if you need to talk, i can give you my email or something.