Miere

hello. couldn’t help speaking up on this topic. it’s very sad that your boyfriend’s family is so disagreeable but the bottom line is you should NOT make such a decision based merely on that fact. your botfriend has obviously made his choice to be with you regardless of his family’s preferences and that’s all that should matter b/c you are not dating his family. now whether the timing is perfect or not is irrelevant b/c if you truly love each other and you two would have had children later, you would still be faced with the same situation. although what he wants IS important b/c you made the child together, it’s your body and ultimately your burden if you go through with a forced abortion that is not your choice as well. he could never understand the tremendous feelings of guilt & uncertainty that can accompany such a traumatic decision. i’ve been there and can attest, that it is not a choice to be taken (or made) lightly. if you do decide to have the child, don’t fret about his family. they would have no right (or grounds) to take you to court or anything. no judge would force a parent and child to interact with the partner’s family members who have displayed blatant & wanton prejudice. they are just saying that to scare you and discourage you from having the child. well, i wish you the best making your decision and God bless you. ~Miere~