what a jerkoff!!!!he doesnt deserve u or the baby,he doesnt value u 2 for what ur worth.if i was in ur shoes,i would move on and leave him behind…i know alot of times the parents want 2 stay 2gether 4 the kids,but if the parents are always arguin or puttin each other down,this carries on2 the child,growin up with a bad childhood and no self esteem,and u know harsh words and insults can often escalate to physical abuse….kepp all your options open,stayin with him isnt the only one!!:)