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Hey, sorry to hear about your situation 🙁 I know how you feel, my partner is pressuring me a lot as well, and we’ve had some really heated arguments about it (and we don’t normally argue very much), and it is very distressing and upsetting.

Many (maybe even most) men can go through that panic stage, think about how big a commitment it is, think about the financial strain, about all the limitations having a baby puts on you. As MissKirsty said, give him some space and some time to think about it, and see if he comes round to the idea.

It is you who is going to have to live with it, if you abort, and you only need to read the posts in here to know that it’s not just going to go away, that you’re not just going to forget it and carry on with life as normal.
It will be with you for the rest of your life. So the decision should be yours, don’t let him force you into something that you’ll regret, just to keep him happy. That could make you end up really resenting him, so having the abortion could put a huge strain on the relationship.

Your boyfriend probably won’t understand but he doesn’t need to. If you are really determined to keep the baby then he should support you, no matter what. I don’t know what I’m going to do or how things are going to work out for me but I think you should follow your heart and do what you think is right. Best of luck. xxx