jaqs_18

First off there are alot of programs that can assist you if you are willing to get a place on your own, you can get paid for living arangements, food, clothing, and protection for your baby. Second,in regards to your family, I think its just a security, your boyfriends family may be scared that you may leave them for your family leaving them in the gutter in regards to your baby. Grandparents are very possesive of there little ones, and of course they cant help but worry if there going to see the baby enough. Personally i would spend time with both of them, let your mother know how you feel about her smoking. I have two roomates that i live with and they both constantly smoke in the house, i just sat them down and told them that i cant be around that, and if they want they can smoke when im not there but they need to ensure that there is no trace of it in the house. Also, in regards to your mother, take it from some one who lost hers, you need to spend time with her despite your differences she gave birth to you, youll be suprised in what she can help you with.