i understand u love your husband very much! but when it comes down to him makeing u choose between him or your child if i was in this predicument i would choose my child over him! u never choose a man over your child , you are caring a special child inside u! that child that you are caring could be a president or anything dont throw that away because of a man!! Did u know that when u get a abortion the child has nerves and can feel everything that the doctors are doing? its sad and very hurtful. But i am not tryin ta preach or anything your decision is your decison just make sure to pray about it first then make your decison. And remember never let a man pressure you or threatin you if he is going to leave you let him. Dont ever loose yourself in a man especially if they dont want nothing to do with there kids that they help crerate!! it takes two not one to bring a life into this world remember that!!!! I love you and i am here for u writ back anytime!!!